If people give negative opinions on any of your vendors (RH, Photo, Video, Makeup Etc)
** Not your guests, but comments that you may read on LIW.
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Mici n KC
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No because each person wants something differently to happen on their day. Vendors can have off days, they're human, technology doesn't work, cars breakdown, etc. Nothing is perfect. What may have been perfect for me, might have been for the next person using the same vendor I did.
futuremrsfab
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I dont, I think some people will have good experiences with a vendor and some will have bad. And both should be posted!
CD516
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No i dont, they are entitled to their opinions. Everyone has different taste. I tend to keep my opionions to myself but thats just me. Some of the RH's i see on this site are TOTALLY not my style and i would never get married there but others love them. I dont really care what people say. It was my choices that i liked.
Browneyesncute
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no, i had a problem with a few of them myself! lol
bluekat16
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No...because everyone's experience is different.
skinny237
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I only did once.....Some chick kept going on and on about how horrible my RH was.....like she wouldn't stop. She said something like, 'I don't know why any1 would want to get married in such a POS place.' (Her reasons for hating it really sounded like she was over-reacting too.)
Hey, we all have our own opinions of places but there's no need to completely bash somewhere that a lot of people on here are getting married.
Other than that....I don't get offended.
RadiantBride
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It's great to see that I am not the only one that doesnt get offended. As long as I loved my vendors and my guests loved the services I am happy. I have seen people get really offended if something is said about their RH not realizing that we are all different and have different tastes. What I may think is gorgeous can be hideous to someone.
Kimbalina
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A lot of girls IMO are toooo nit picky and that isn't my style,, so maybe I will think that they are wrong. LOL... so Nahhh I just give my points on why I did or didn't like a certain vendor.
RadiantBride
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Posted by skinny237 She said something like, 'I don't know why any1 would want to get married in such a POS place.' (.
See that's different. That would even bother me to an extent and I have really thick skin.
TommysWife08
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no... there are MANY negative comments on here about my photographer - which i made sure to say in my review that i was happy with them!!
Toucan311
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NO. Maybe they were great on my day but ****** on someone else's. I know for damn sure that I paid $$$ based on positive reviews for a few LIW vendors that I was VERY disappointed with, so I'd hope that ppl were honest in all of their reviews, even if they're negative.
Gigi08
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No.
Wifeynella
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Heck no!!! To each their own!
08JulyBride
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It depends..
some girls on here voice negative opinions on halls and vendors they haven't even used.. and harp on it. In that case I find it rude. But if they've had first-hand experience and it was negative I think it's good to share. I'm not crazy about the fact that all negative feedback seems to disappear on this site.. This is where lots of brides come to get reviews, whether it be good or bad.
Butterfly123
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Nah I ignore them. Some people are pickier than others. I wasnt picky at all.
lizzie217
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Before the wedding I got nervous ... hoping they would be good on my day. But not offended.
After I dont care...I loved my wedding and my vendors so if someone has a different experience or opinion then it does not phase me.
lizzie217
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Posted by TommysWife08
no... there are MANY negative comments on here about my photographer - which i made sure to say in my review that i was happy with them!!
Me too! And I LOVED them ...i had all vendors booked before I knew of this site, BUT I got so nervous thinking 'Why dont any of these brides use them?' In the end they were awesome so it is all good
del Rio
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Offended no, but I do sometimes get sad when I hear a great review for a vendor I had that wasn't so great.
SeptBride70
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Well, if someone just didn't have a good experience for one reason or another that is one thing. But if someone comes on and starts ripping apart a place, or a vendor, or a band, etc. that's just mean. There's a different between facts and opinions... So, I don't ever recall being offended because if someone just didn't like the service they got then that is OK for them to say it - that's their experience. I, luckily, had GREAT experiences with all of my vendors. But, if someone just starting ripping apart vendors for person reasons or a place for whatever reason that's a little different - I probably would just ignore it though.
