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peabody Posted: Mar 06, 2005 03:34 PM+
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Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

I handed in all my pictures for my album(s) to our photographer. But there is this one picture that for some reason I really love, but it was taken by a guest.

What do you think? Do you think I can ask them to include it? Do you think they will be offended? It's nothing against there talent and skill, it's just this one digitial picture, I love.

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maggiebaby2 Posted: Mar 06, 2005 03:36 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

OMG! I was wondering the same thing, but never had the guts to ask the photographer....
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cocoa Posted: Mar 06, 2005 04:41 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?


Posted by maggiebaby2

OMG! I was wondering the same thing, but never had the guts to ask the photographer....


ditto
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oakslady Posted: Mar 06, 2005 05:05 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

i asked this and he said it was fine
you should ask
nothing ventured nothing gained
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btrflygrl Posted: Mar 06, 2005 06:31 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

they shouldn't mind
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JodiBabe Posted: Mar 06, 2005 07:12 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

My Photographers would normally charge extra I believe to add pics that they did not take but they put a pic of my DH & daughter in that was taken from table camera at no charge because it was on my list of must take pics and it wasn't taken

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wood2be Posted: Mar 07, 2005 09:30 AM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?


Posted by cocoa


Posted by maggiebaby2

OMG! I was wondering the same thing, but never had the guts to ask the photographer....


ditto




That is so funny! I was just thinking this morning about how I would ask the same question!
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Stacey04 Posted: Mar 07, 2005 09:35 AM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

We did. But our photographer told us that a regular picture or digital picture won't come out well, maybe it depends on how big it needs to be blown up?

No harm in asking. Some people capture great shots that the photographer doesn't. They should understand that.
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Sonicstef Posted: Mar 07, 2005 11:53 AM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

We did this and I dont think my photographer minded at all. Im sure your photographer wants you to be happy.

Even if he did mind, I wouldnt care much. Its my album.
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palebride Posted: Mar 07, 2005 12:24 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?


Posted by JodiJohn903

My Phothographers would normally charge extra I believe to add pics that they did not take but they put a pic of my DH & daughter in that was taken from table camera at no charge because it was on my list of must take pics and it wasn't taken




that's a great shot
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Stacey04 Posted: Mar 07, 2005 12:39 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?


Posted by Sonicstef

We did this and I dont think my photographer minded at all. Im sure your photographer wants you to be happy.

Even if he did mind, I wouldnt care much. Its my album.



Did you give them the negative? Do you have your album back? Does it look like the others?

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Calla Posted: Mar 07, 2005 12:59 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

If they are offended they are being silly. Your album should be what you want! Absolutely ask to have this done.
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97bride Posted: Mar 07, 2005 02:57 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

I asked and they were fine with it but warned me that it wouldn't look the same quality-wise as the other pictures in the album. I didn't end up including that one.
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AliKing Posted: Mar 07, 2005 03:06 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

I would just ask... At my brothers wedding for some reason they didnt have a pict of us, so he gave the photographer one that a guest had taken.... They didnt have a problem with it at all.
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Sonicstef Posted: Mar 07, 2005 04:00 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?


Did you give them the negative? Do you have your album back? Does it look like the others?


The photo I used was a digital from a very fancy camera. I did blow it up pretty big and it doesnt look quite as perfect as the other photos but I was okay with that.

If its a regular digital or you just have a scan of the photo, I would not blow it up.

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JodiBabe Posted: Mar 07, 2005 06:10 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?


Posted by palebride


Posted by JodiJohn903

My Phothographers would normally charge extra I believe to add pics that they did not take but they put a pic of my DH & daughter in that was taken from table camera at no charge because it was on my list of must take pics and it wasn't taken




that's a great shot



Thanks Lori! It is one of my favorites!
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sonia Posted: Mar 08, 2005 08:13 AM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

We did it. I hired two photographers for my wedding (one American, one Indian). I had the photographer who was making my album include a few pics from the other. Hey I still paid her for her work!
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G&D Posted: Mar 09, 2005 12:01 PM+
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Re: Do you think it is rude to ask the photographer to include a picture in your album that they didn't take?

We were just wondering the same thing! Some pictures that were taken by friends came out great and we wanted to include them in the album. We thought that it might be rude to ask and that they would say no...We decided that when we meet with the photographer next week, we will just ask...it cant hurt!
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