Does your dh do this to you?

Does your dh do this to you?

Does anyone elses 'dh' keep them up all night long??? Either its the snoring, taking over the bed, or (maybe tmi) touching constantly?????????? He drives me nuts and when he leaves for work in the morning, I guess my body finally relaxes and I fall into a deep sleep and I have been getting up late for work. I have talked to him about it, fought with him about, even moved to the couch in the middle of the night...nothing helps! Does anyone else go through this cause Im ready to kill him!!!!!!!!!!

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Now I know what my poor DH goes through! He is a really calm sleeper, but I hog the bed, the covers, I grind my teeth - the works!!

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want to laugh - we were having a similar problem. So what I do now is at night we sit on the couch and watch tv. I know if I rub his neck he will fall inot a deep sleep. So when I am ready for bed I wake him up (very gently) usually he doesn't budge, then I cover him, kiss him and go to bed. Eventually he wakes up and comes to bed too, but by then I am in a deep sleep and here nothing. This seems to work. Its kind of mean, I know, but hey a girl needs her beauty rest

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DH 'claims' I do all that stuff LOL


Can you fit a bigger bed in your room? He said I wasnt as bad when we switched to a queen and he hardly knows I'm there in a king (on vacations).

I'm sorry you're not sleeping

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Soooo bad! The snoring, the kicking, the tossing & turning ... I'm up all night some nights! If it gets really bad, I go sleep on the couch! It's more comfortable than my bed anyway!

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Actually that would be me! I am the restless one..I toss and turn all night!!

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OMG, I'm the guilty one, too!!! I *cannot* sleep for more than 2 hours straight...and that was BEFORE I was pg!! I toss and turn all the time and now, it's at least every 1/2 hour. Not to mention, a minimum of 4 bathroom trips throughout the evening!!

My poor baby!! He has to get up for work at 3:30 a.m. I sometimes wish I could sleep without him and have him sleep in the guest room so he could actually get some quality zzzzzzzzzz's.

He's the one who insisted on a queen bed vs. king - so we could be more 'cuddly'.

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I have this BAD. My husband snores something awful. I have pushed and prodded, pulled the pillow, given him more pillows nothing works. He sprawls across the bed - the worst though is he will not give up that DAMN remote even when dead asleep!. He keeps this VICE grip on it.

Hard to sleep Yes. Now with the puppy I haven't slept more than 1 -2 hours a night!

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We have two remotes

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My husband snores but I usually go to sleep before him.

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This is gonna sound horrible but what about the touching thing...its like he wants sex EVERY NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It just drives me nuts! Some night I really am too tired or I really do have a headache! Its like hes the energizer bunny or something, I am sooooo tired! Sorry if that was too much info there!

But its a part of married life right?? lol

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Oh Noreen, welcome to my world!!!!! Sleeping with my husband is like being on the Titanic!!! Between the snoring and the tossing and the turning and the hogging of the bed and the pillow over my pillow and him grabbing all the blankets, HOW IS ANYONE SUPPOSED TO SLEEP??? Let alone A PREGNANT WOMAN!!! It's bad enough I have to get up to pee, but when I go back to the bed, he HAS THE WHOLE DARN BED!!! Another person could sleep on his side!!! And then when I climb in, he grabs me and puts his arm around me like a vice and I can't move at all!!

I also go into a coma when he leaves for work -- the best hour's sleep all night!!! When I tell him what he does, he tells me that he doesn't snore, it's me!!!! Oh, and he talks in his sleep also!!!

So, I TOTALLY sympathize with you!!!

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Another sympathizer here.

I think I finally broke Patrick into the 'cuddle BEFORE sleep' routine, and he's been staying out of my personal space while I'm sleeping.

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I swear I am leaning towards this if we had an extra room! Its so bad! I didnt sleep all night and I couldnt go to work cause I was sick in the first place. Its really making me mad and makes me dread bed time now..which used to be the best part of my day!

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Sadly, I am the snorer!! Poor DH!!!!! When I am really tired I keep him awake with it and since I have a 5 1/2 month old, I am tired alot. My son snores too, DH is outnumbered.