I feel like I am prepping for another wedding with trying to make sure i fit into this gown for TWOTY lol! It's good stress and I am SO not complaining because i realize how fortunate i am to have this opportunity (THANKS LIW!) but I am nervous that I am going to look awful lol...we have a tough audience ladies...you were all such beautiful brides and the 10ers, 11ers and 12ers will be also! Eek!!
Off to do some cardio!
GT143EA
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i agree also lauren! stop making yourself crazy! you are going to make the most gorgeous bride again! sooo stop sweating the small stuff!
ITA!! You and all the other girls are going to look amazing! And we are going to have a freakin blast!! Can't wait!!!!
im excited to party w/ some of my favorites! WOO
That better include me biatch!
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lauren i totally get what u r sayng...
i worry how im going to look n that dress..but bottom line,i can only be me so im going to pack all this into that dress and party like a hot mess!!!
and btw...i have seen her in that dress and she is off the hook hottness!!!!!!!!
your r going to look amazing!!!!!
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Can I be totally honest? I don't think most people are there for you personally to critique you. I think everyone looks at this as a really cheap day out for food, drinking, and dancing - and that's what they're looking forward to - not 'how will Lauren look in the dress.' So there really isn't any pressure. I hope that doesn't sound mean!
With that being said, I think you are absolutely insane for worrying about how you'll look since you'll look great!
I disagree slightly. I think that at any wedding, not just an event like this, people DO look at the bride and bridal party and critique them. Their hair, their makeup, their dress, their body...I've seen it done at every single wedding I've ever been a guest at. There is always some chitter chatter about 'oh did you SEE her hair' or 'did you SEE the bride's ________'. Not every single person at a wedding, or especially at an event like this is nice or polite or even mature. Some people are judgmental and nasty and I know that I am definitely nervous about how I'm going to look and what people will say. That's just me.
On a different note, Lauren I can see a little bit how others may think you are being overly critical of yourself, and that it seems like you're going overboard. I personally understand you, but not everyone else can/does I suppose. Ang, I'm not even referencing you here just to make that clear. The cartoon Jenny posted really said it best. I can truly relate to that. Hugs to you Lauren.
When all is said and done ladies, TWOTY 10 is going to be a blast for all involved!! That should be the main thing for everyone...WHAT A GOOD TIME WE'RE GONNA HAVE!!! Dance the day away baby!!!!
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Can I be totally honest? I don't think most people are there for you personally to critique you. I think everyone looks at this as a really cheap day out for food, drinking, and dancing - and that's what they're looking forward to - not 'how will Lauren look in the dress.' So there really isn't any pressure. I hope that doesn't sound mean!
With that being said, I think you are absolutely insane for worrying about how you'll look since you'll look great!
I hope i didnt come off as sounding like it hink people are there to see me becuase I know thats not the case...i do also know that this is a shwocase of vendors so I feel pressure to look good for the vendor as well as the site. Im absolutely positive that girls arent there to see what we will look like but I will speak for myself in saying that I want to look nice as I do anytime i enter public lol.
No no Lauren, not at all! I was just trying to say that this isn't like a typical wedding where everyone is there specifically to see a marriage. I didn't want to sound mean, or like I was insulting you at all.
