Even though you are married, do you ever freak that you're pregnant?

Even though you are married, do you ever freak that you're pregnant?

I mean knowing you do want to have kids, but just not yet.

Re: Even though you are married, do you ever freak that you're pregnant?

Yes -after the wedding I had a scare. Not a real one, but it was real in my head...if you know what I mean. I would have been ok with it since we are married but still I would rather not have kids yet.

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YES!!!!!!!!!

I went off the pill and I am charting......
so we only have to use condoms during the fertile time, but it can be such a pain, and your temp is easily affected by lack of sleep, sickness, alcohol

and since going off the pill my cycle can be anywhere from 24 to 30 days, so i freak out on the long cycles

we do want kids in the next few years which is why i went off the pill to get my body back on track before hand but it can be really scary to think oh Sh1t am I preggo

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Yes can we say right now I have been tired and nauseous like crap. I am in a horrible foul mood bc I am so scared. I want kids but in about 2 years

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YES!

Re: Even though you are married, do you ever freak that you're pregnant?

the pill i am currently on i don't get a friend at all. so every 28 days i freak out. I am not ready for the financial responsibility.

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Posted by RadiantBride

Yes can we say right now I have been tired and nauseous like crap. I am in a horrible foul mood bc I am so scared. I want kids but in about 2 years

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Re: Even though you are married, do you ever freak that you're pregnant?

OMG, I'm so glad I'm not alone in this. I'm on the pill too and literally just had a scare this week. I should have had aunt flo on Tuesday or Wednesday well nothing. I woke up at 3am and was freaking out. I kept thinking about how things will change for us. I was getting upset about it. However when I woke up this morning, I got it and was so relieved. DH didn't mind because he's ready, but I'm not.

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Posted by RadiantBride

Yes can we say right now I have been tired and nauseous like crap. I am in a horrible foul mood bc I am so scared. I want kids but in about 2 years

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I know the more you stress about it, it does have an effect on it.

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Posted by bluekat16

I would freak out a little if it were now because I still haven't sold or rented my apt. I think if I didn't have that burden I wouldn't care because we'd be OK.

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Of course money was something I thought of, but then I started thinking of all the projects we have planned for the house and what we're doing right now, how we'd have to change the guest bedroom to a nursery and then what do we do with everything that's in there now and what about the anniversary trip we want to go on and who is going to watch the baby since I work and go to school. This was all going through my head at 3am

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yesssssssssssssss like one month i was so anxious and it was delayed for a week.. needless to say i drove DH nuts and spent 50 dollars on preggo tests.. the first showed up negative and i was like the ol'cheap shyt.. and then spent some extra money and got another kit.. negative and got AF the next day..

eta: i passed out on the train that month.. so my coworkers and my mom and MIL kept asking me if i was preggo.. it just added to my anxiety..

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YES I posted this a few weeks ago...I had a scare last month .. we want kids but hadn't planned on having them YET

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Posted by AR31

yesssssssssssssss like one month i was so anxious and it was delayed for a week.. needless to say i drove DH nuts and spent 50 dollars on preggo tests.. the first showed up negative and i was like the ol'cheap shyt.. and then spent some extra money and got another kit.. negative and got AF the next day..

eta: i passed out on the train that month.. so my coworkers and my mom and MIL kept asking me if i was preggo.. it just added to my anxiety..

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OMG

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Yes, even though I'm on the pill and we still use condoms. Every time my period is even a DAY late, I freak.

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Posted by RadiantBride

Yes can we say right now I have been tired and nauseous like crap. I am in a horrible foul mood bc I am so scared. I want kids but in about 2 years

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Awwww Nelly

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Re: Even though you are married, do you ever freak that you're pregnant?

I haven't had a scare but if I did I'd be we are not ready for children! I think we still have some settling in to the marraige to do before we try. We'd manage if we had a surprise and financially it would be a litle difficult but we'd be able to do it.

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I don't being that I take the pills every single day...I don't forget them. I could be sick and tired and already in bed and but I will make sure to tell DH to get them for me..I don't want kids anytime soon so I really make sure I take the pills every single night I used to get scared...well worried the first 2 months, but that was bc aunt flow would not show, but the Dr. said it was due to the pills.