FORGET IT!

Editted because it hurt how few cared and how more cared about this!!!

Before you judge read my response!

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have you thought about getting a pet? a cat is easier...and they curl up on your lap...but a dog brings so much unconditional love...but is more work...


my cat stayed with my parents while my aunt was staying over (my uncle just passed away) and she loved how my cat curled up on her...she ended up getting a cat...this woman never had a pet in her entire life!!!

hang in there

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I am sorry his schedule is so rough Is there a class you can take? I used to take ceramics at a local store (queens) and other types of classes at the colleges & jr colleges. They take up time, you learn a skill and meet new people. I know its not anywhere close to being with DH but at least you are not sitting at home by yourself

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Jamie you always have us

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Jamie that stinks!!! Gene and I worked opposing schedules for a long time and so I completely understand. Doesn't his boss know that you guys just got married?? . Can you kidnap him for a night or something before you go back to work?

If you get really bored or lonesome you are more than welcome to come and hang out with me..you can play painter with me!!!!!

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Jamie you know you can call me anytime.
And for the record, I tried to make plans with you, but you were busy every night.

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Jamie
There are people here who care about you!!!! Me, me!!! I haven't been on much, but I always look for your posts. I feel so badly that you got upset. Many hugs to you sweetie!!!

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Jamie, I didn't even see your original post. I would have offered some advice if I saw it. I feel bad that you're feelings are hurt because I would have like to of helped you. I just wasn't on that much last night and I only really posted responses to my own previous posts.

I understand and agree with what you're saying though. It seems as if a lot of people sometimes forget the reason this site even exists. I too get sick of the drama and that's probably one of the reasons my posts are so low. If you want to FM me to talk about anything, please feel free to do so. And know that there are a lot of girls on this site that are willing to help you.

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Jamie I am sorry that LIW made you even more upset then you already were last night. THat's not usually the case around here. Please try not to take the low response to your thread personally - the boards were pretty slow last night and not everyone comes to the NW Board. I hope you know we are here for you and care

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aw gee..what could I have MISSED! I was on from 6:30 am to 6:00 pm!!! DARN IT!

Hope you are feeling better whatever happened....

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Jaimie
hope whatever it is your better I didnt see this or the other post you linked in
yesterday was my anniversary and I wasnt on much after working hours
I was on for maybe two minutes when I checked lotto


you could always FM or email me

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Jaime - you took your post down at 11:30pm. Most people check the boards first thing in the morning when they come in. . . .I know I do.

I could have responded to you if I knew what was going on. . . .I'm sorry though that you're feeling bad, and I hope it gets better.

From some other responses, I see that you are maybe missing Frankie since you have opposite hours. I know how you feel. My husband is a musician, and works at least 4 nights a week just gigging with his band. I hardly get to see him between practices and gigs some weeks. He works from home, and sometimes we are only home together for an hour before he's off to another gig.

We try and deal with it as best we can.

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Swags dont take it to heart. Some people need a break from reality. thats why drama is good sometimes.

Now, I missed your problem, but from what I read. Sounds like there are some time issues with hubba.

Unfortunately in life things arent always perfect and I agree with the girls maybe take a class, or get involved in some activity that you always wanted to be involved in.

Is his schedule permanent or subject to change, maybe you guys could escape for a mini get away? THings will pan out. Dont worry

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Jamie ... I'm sorry too. I usually check the boards in the am then at night. I'm really sorry that your feelings were hurt.

I think you posted about Frankie working different hours then you. It must be tough ... but I'm hoping it's only temporary. Does he work weekends too?
My ex boyfriend was a cop and use to work nights ... so I can relate. Try to look at the positive side of this ... maybe you can take a class you really would like, read a great book, or go to the gym, a bike ride, or walk with friends. I know none of those things can replace time spent with your DH ... but if your energy is spent in a positive way ... it will make you feel better overall.

I'm sorry you're hurting!

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I don't know what happened, and I can't find the thread, but it sounds like (as usual) someone attacked someone else for a post.

This is supposed to be a place for advice, support, and community. Naturally, all of us won't get along all the time. But we shouldn't judge someone else for their feelings or experiences. Who is anyone to tell another person what they should or shouldn't be feeling?

Jamie, it sounded like you were having trouble dealing with your DH's schedule. I have the same problem myself.

Wish I was on last night so I could have read the post.

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I'm sorry you felt so let down.

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Jamie - don't forget we have scrapbooking to do together!

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to Jamie!!!

Not sure what happened, but if it is what it sounds like (hubby not around much?) I hear ya! And I have no hobbies

Where do you live? Maybe we can have a 'lonley wives club' party (I'll look for any excuse for a party!)

I'm sorry you're sad. You're always so helpful to others and we weren't there for you