Freaking out a little bit...need my liwers advice<3

I think the important thing is to take care of yourself!! if you need those days off to feel better than take them! especially since you are prego!!!!

i know its hard to take the days off but they should understand, concidering you never done something like this before!!

main concern is you and your baby's health! your boss needs to understand!! and these are the reasons you have personal days to begin with!

Take it easy and get better hun!!!!
dont stres about work cuz its going to get you more stressed out!

Your health is paramount!!! Do whatever it takes to make sure you and the baby is healthy. They should understand this. I hope it all works out

Jenny, agree with everyone else - you and baby are most important here! Do what's best for you guys! Your job can b*tch about it but in the end they can't do anything if you are taking time off while preggo and sick - you won't get fired, I'm pretty sure that would be illegal.

Feel better!

i totally agree with everyone else! you and the baby are priority one! that's why there are sick and personal days, and maternity leave as well. and i know that it is hard with no subs, but that's the district's problem, not yours. as hard as it might be, they can't give you trouble, - even if they b!tch... let them, because in the end, it's about your health and the baby's! and i hope you feel better very soon!!

You and your baby need to be your first priority...talk to your boss about the early maternity leave. And lots of for you both!!!

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

Plenty of women take maternity leave early and if you feel that this is what you need to do to ensure that you and your baby are healthy then do it. Nobody can fault you for that Jenny!

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ITA!!!!yours and the babies health is the most important thing! I hope you feel better soon!

Thanks girls. Tomorow when I go in I am going to make an appt with her and explain that the doctor thinks since my immune system isnt working so well, that I should consider taking maternity the six weeks before school ends. I thinmk Ill also say I dont feel comfortable staying and risk going into preterm labor before the 30th and having to miss work....

Ugh this is so hard :(

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

Thanks girls. Tomorow when I go in I am going to make an appt with her and explain that the doctor thinks since my immune system isnt working so well, that I should consider taking maternity the six weeks before school ends. I thinmk Ill also say I dont feel comfortable staying and risk going into preterm labor before the 30th and having to miss work....

Ugh this is so hard :(

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they dont have leave replacements?? someone that could cover you for the remainder of the school year?

are you the first one do get prego?? lol i feel like your school district should have a back up place for pregnancies! not everyone can plan it right to give birth right after school ends for the summer, and then just go back in september!

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

Thanks girls. Tomorow when I go in I am going to make an appt with her and explain that the doctor thinks since my immune system isnt working so well, that I should consider taking maternity the six weeks before school ends. I thinmk Ill also say I dont feel comfortable staying and risk going into preterm labor before the 30th and having to miss work....

Ugh this is so hard :(

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they dont have leave replacements?? someone that could cover you for the remainder of the school year?

are you the first one do get prego?? lol i feel like your school district should have a back up place for pregnancies! not everyone can plan it right to give birth right after school ends for the summer, and then just go back in september!

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I know..

Im in a private school so its different. There is no union- they make things up as they go...

im praying for a replacement- but we shall see :(