Frisky question alert!! between you & DH- who's usually the initiator of sex?

Original post by HelenZ

Oct 17, 2007 07:51 PM

I guess I have to ask, since it's almost always ME! what can I say, I have a healthy appetite for it, and DH and I always seem to be on different schedules.....he's more of a 'morning man' and I'm definitely a night person!! which is usually when he's half asleep and cranky as hell!

Do you initiate more, or DH?

I figured this is a good question since now that planning is over we can get back to our regularly scheduled sex lives!!

Aug07OFCbride Posted: Oct 17, 2007 11:08 PM

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Aug07OFCbride Posted: Oct 17, 2007 11:15 PM

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joan_db Posted: Oct 17, 2007 11:37 PM

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Posted by HelenZ

Posted by Brian and Marie

Posted by Aug07OFCbride

Def DH!

And I know exactly what you mean about guys and the morning. Sheesh. Im a night person!

ME TOO!!!! I'm not a big fan of morning sex at all!!!!

seriously.....get off me w/ that dragon breath dude!! mornings just aren't too sexy round here!

DH love AM sex...but I always insist that he brush his teeth - morning breath is just a turn off for me

AeroJenn Posted: Oct 17, 2007 11:46 PM

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Definately DH. This going to sound weird, but I'm horny just as much as him, but by the time he gets home I dont want it anymore I'm in the mood during the late morning/early afternoon, but by the time he gets home and wants it, I'm in dinner-making mode or I'm tired from cleaning and I just dont feel sexy anymore.

tricia3381 Posted: Oct 18, 2007 06:15 AM

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70% of the time its dh.

NF622 Posted: Oct 18, 2007 09:54 AM

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DH likes to think its him, but its def me. I was all about initiating last night, but he wanted to finish watching CSI!!

luvabul Posted: Oct 18, 2007 12:30 PM

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yes! i agree.... god what happened to the good old days when he was my boyfriend and fiance...we'd be at it always

kitty1224 Posted: Oct 18, 2007 12:46 PM

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has always been Me! but Men are definetly into the morning which I am definetly not into. I want it at night Baby not at 7:45 am.

B22 Posted: Oct 18, 2007 01:13 PM

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it varies... we both initiate equally...

but i could NEVER 'wake him up' in the middle of the night for a romp b/c he might deck me.

(he is a TERRIBLE sleeper)

Mooshyboo Posted: Oct 18, 2007 01:25 PM

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usually DH although I am starting to initiate more... we are both morning people ~ Start the day off right

ChrisnAmy Posted: Oct 18, 2007 01:32 PM

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DH does but i have know to start up the action also!

jtgarsik Posted: Oct 18, 2007 03:52 PM

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Posted by Brian and Marie

Posted by jtgarsik

ps: i love sex

hehehhheheeh

ME TOO!

Summer07Bride Posted: Oct 18, 2007 05:07 PM

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DH, although recently I have started to do so more

TnOiOnL Posted: Oct 18, 2007 05:44 PM

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werock0709 Posted: Oct 18, 2007 05:57 PM

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I just say the word and he's ready . But he initiates ALOT as well.

LB and DC Posted: Oct 18, 2007 07:58 PM

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it's usually me - i think he would but he is kind of shy about 'asking' for it, so i have to pick up on his *hints*

Unapearla Posted: Oct 19, 2007 10:41 AM

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both of us

fallinlove91407 Posted: Oct 19, 2007 11:17 AM

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definitely DH is the initiator -- he has sex on the brain at all times -- but what guy doesn't, right ?

Dee606 Posted: Oct 19, 2007 11:48 PM

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Posted by Aug07OFCbride

Posted by HelenZ

Posted by Brian and Marie

Posted by Aug07OFCbride

Def DH!

And I know exactly what you mean about guys and the morning. Sheesh. Im a night person!

ME TOO!!!! I'm not a big fan of morning sex at all!!!!

seriously.....get off me w/ that dragon breath dude!! mornings just aren't too sexy round here!

Dragon breath!!!!

DH was lurking the boards & his response to the dragon breath comment was... 'that's what doggy-style is for.'

MushesGirl Posted: Oct 20, 2007 10:01 AM

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Definitely me, and I have the same issue about dh waking up at 4:45 am, he's in construction and is totally wiped out at night. So we're usually trying to catch up on weekends. But I have another question for you all: do you think it has anything to do with dh's age if you are the initiators? dh is 8 years older than me and i wonder if that affects things...