Frisky question alert!! between you & DH- who's usually the initiator of sex?

Original post by HelenZ

Oct 17, 2007 07:51 PM

I guess I have to ask, since it's almost always ME! what can I say, I have a healthy appetite for it, and DH and I always seem to be on different schedules.....he's more of a 'morning man' and I'm definitely a night person!! which is usually when he's half asleep and cranky as hell!

Do you initiate more, or DH?

I figured this is a good question since now that planning is over we can get back to our regularly scheduled sex lives!!

HelenZ Posted: Oct 21, 2007 06:37 PM

Re: Frisky question alert!! between you & DH- who's usually the initiator of sex?

Posted by MushesGirl

Definitely me, and I have the same issue about dh waking up at 4:45 am, he's in construction and is totally wiped out at night. So we're usually trying to catch up on weekends. But I have another question for you all: do you think it has anything to do with dh's age if you are the initiators? dh is 8 years older than me and i wonder if that affects things...

that's always a possiblity!! they say men peak at 18 but women its around 30 (if so than good lord, DH is in trouble in 2 years when I hit 30!!

My DH is 5 yrs older, so maybe they just can't keep up w/ us! doubt it though, most men seem to be into it at any age!