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pandafish519 Posted: Aug 03, 2010 11:09 PM+

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Posted: Aug 03, 2010 11:09 PM

having a hard time..

at work recently. maddy is getting so big and doing so many new things that it is making me so upset to be away from her all day long. it doesn't help that i have been working late and SO busy with stuff for weddings, family stuff, etc. that i haven't seen her even on the nights that i AM around. it sucks....

ugh. pity party over.

FutureMrsG Posted: Aug 04, 2010 12:25 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 12:25 AM

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Can you try to make a 'family day' ? Many of my friends that work full time and have children have made Sunday a family day. They do not make plans outside of the family on Sunday's with exceptions for important events. Good Luck!

Clover23 Posted: Aug 04, 2010 06:32 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 06:32 AM

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awwww that must be so hard, i can only imagine.

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Aug 04, 2010 07:40 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 07:40 AM

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i feel ya mama!!!

i am so excited to have kids but i dread the day cuz im going to have to work and knowing now even before i have kids that i am going to miss things and someone else will see it before me...

dont worry lovie maddy prob misses you just as much! and im sure work will not be crazy busy all the time! you take some days off and make up for lost time!! and have some maddy and mommy time!

KerriJohnS Posted: Aug 04, 2010 08:19 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 08:19 AM

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i sorry.
I'm sure it's really hard.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Aug 04, 2010 08:49 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 08:49 AM

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Aww Ally...I'm so sorry. I am sure this is just so painful for you. I know a lot of my friends from work ahve this trouble when their maternity leaves are over and its awful. So just know you are not alone. I love the idea of a family day. Is there anyway that you can talk to the people at your job about evenings easing up? Maddy loves you and you are doing the very best you can. Hang in there lovey.

halfbaked Posted: Aug 04, 2010 10:50 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 10:50 AM

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I can't even imagine how hard it must be.

Do you have any vacation time. Maybe you can take a day or two off work and just spend it with Maddy!

gina409 Posted: Aug 04, 2010 11:50 AM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 11:50 AM

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i am so sorry ally!!!!!

i cant imagine how hard this must be

whoever is wit her during the ay could the tape her say 1 hour a day dong randm diff things like rawling,eating etc etc..a the end of the week say sun night po that video in with her in your arms and enjoy

and remember you sre her mother and she loves you more than anything and she always alays will

las1 Posted: Aug 04, 2010 01:27 PM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 01:27 PM

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I am so sorry.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Aug 04, 2010 01:28 PM+

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Posted: Aug 04, 2010 01:28 PM

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Posted by gina409

i am so sorry ally!!!!!

i cant imagine how hard this must be

whoever is wit her during the ay could the tape her say 1 hour a day dong randm diff things like rawling,eating etc etc..a the end of the week say sun night po that video in with her in your arms and enjoy

and remember you sre her mother and she loves you more than anything and she always alays will

what a FABULOUS idea Gina! I got tears in my eyes thinking about it!