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Original post by Summertimegal424

so girls all i can say is give your man an extra hug and kiss and tell him one more time just how much you love him.

as many of of you know Tom had his cat scan yesterday, the results came back and he has been diagnosed w/ lung disease, stage 2.

He will be having a procedure on Wednesday that will biopsy his lung and give us some more answers. Right now he is scheduled for an outpatient procedure, but given the fact of how many markings he has he will probally need to stay in the ICU for a few days and be monitored. that is perfect for me b/c that is where i work, so i know he will have around the clock care!

DH is scared, and of course so am I. this whole waiting time i have been sooooo calm and strong for him and when he needs me to be the strongest literally my heart is BREAKING i have been crying on and off all day.

all i ask is that you all continue your prayers, this procedure needs to be done and with further medication and steriods throughout his life he will fight this

thank you all for your kind words, you guys are truely amazing
Cacarina Posted:

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Oh, Colleen, I am SO sorry you and Tom are going through this. I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong...Tom is lucky to have someone like you there by his side through all of this.

Tomlaur0808 Posted:

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OMG Coll.... I cant even... I couldnt even finish your post without crying...my heart just breaks for you both....I was in church today for Good Friday & I was praying & praying so hard for you both....I will continue those prayers until you guys get through this...& I know you will! I am so glad he will have you in the ICU to watch over him.
geegee827 Posted:

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Colleen you and Tom will be in my prayers. I know you will have the strength to get through this.

T E R I Posted:

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Colleen, I am soo sorry that you and Tom have to go through this, many prayers for both of you
RitasEngaged Posted:

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omg sweetie my heart is breaking for you

all i can stay is try to stay positive and believe everything will be ok you two will be in my prayers
MrsInglima Posted:

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I am so so sorry. I will definitely be praying for you guys.
FinallyMrsB18 Posted:

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little34 Posted:

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OMG....my prayers and well wishes will be with you both. You both seem to have great senses of humor so just try to keep one another laughing... it will help you get through this. Please keep us posted and let your hubby know that we are all thinking about him and wishing him well!!!!
dazies1011 Posted:

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OMG Colleen if there is anything you and Tom need let me know. Im soo sorry this happening, keep thinking positive
jeanettelovesjason Posted:

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I am so sorry!!! Thank God he has you! I cant even imagine how hard it must be for you!! YOu are both in my prayers!!!
JamieAnt06202009 Posted:

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I am so sorry that you guys are going through this. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

ttdiff11 Posted:

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im so sorry!!! lots of prayers your way!!!!

gina409 Posted:

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colleen i am crying reading this...i am so heartbroken for you guys

i m going to write this and i want u to read this and remember it again and again

YOU WILL GET THROUGHT THIS!!!!!!!

hold onto your faith and your love for one another and you will get through this together!!!!!

i know nothing i can say will make you feel any better but know that w are all here for you and love you!!

let us hear the vents/cries/screams/tears whatever it may be..day or night call me text email anything..even if u just want to scream..i promise u i will be here

please please please call me if i can do anything to help u and i will be thinking bout u guys every day
azailia Posted:

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colleen, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

i know it is hard to be strong, when it gets hard and you need to let it out, please use these boards as your outlet

Just try to stay positive, the waiting is the worst part, hopefully all your questions will be answered soon.

It is definately a good thing that he will be in the hospital where you work, so you can keep a close eye on him to make sure he is getting nothing but the best care.


GT143EA Posted:

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Coll I am so so sorry! Please if you ever need anything at all, Im just a phone call away! I will continue to keep you and Tom in my prayers
sofreakingexcited Posted:

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So sorry to hear this
FutureMrsG Posted:

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Watever143 Posted:

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I'm soo sorry..I can't imagine how u are feling right now...all I could say is dh is young and will get through this...just stay positive

MirabellaNYC Posted:

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Colleen we're here for you. Sending prayers your way.


CloudNine Posted:

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oh colleen im so sorry about the news.
on the bright side, at least it is diagnosed so proper steps for recovery can be taken.
life doesnt throw things your way unless you can handle it so you guys WILL get through this!
my prayers and thoughts are with you and DH

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