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babygirl71777 Posted: Dec 10, 2007 05:52 PM

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Porno and Strippers/Strip Clubs??

I really dont know why im asking these weird questions tonight LOL

Jennifer907 Posted: Dec 10, 2007 07:45 PM

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Neither bothers me really. Porn doesn't at all. It can be fun sometimes. I prob wouldn't be thrilled if DH went to a strip club, but most of those places are look and no touch types so it's really no big deal. For his bach party, he went to a strip club and the boys got him 3 lap dances. I knew it was coming, and thought I'd be mad, but surprisingly, I wasn't bothered at all.

cookiemonster Posted: Dec 10, 2007 08:10 PM

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That's a good question - I've definitely talked about this with my friends before. Some say it's a fun thing to share in a relationship and others say they feel uncomfortable or even offended, like it's a statement that they're not sexy enough. I can see merit in both arguments.

HelenZ Posted: Dec 10, 2007 08:18 PM

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they don't bother me at all! I guess b/c I know DH is a gentleman, and he doesn't act like a pig, as long as its look but no touchy feely time, it's all good!

jtgarsik Posted: Dec 10, 2007 09:04 PM

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i think everybody has their own opinion on the issue. For both of us it's a no-no. It's not a trust issue at all, just a respect thing. I don't think going and lustfully enjoying naked men/women is respectful to ur husband or wife. simply jmo. some people are all about it & thats okay if u're u & ur hubby/wife are on the same page...it's just not for us.

Future Mrs. Posted: Dec 10, 2007 09:05 PM

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doesn't bother me.....but does NOTHING to turn me on, either. I think its cheesy.

Summer07Bride Posted: Dec 10, 2007 09:24 PM

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I'm really not into either one. It doesn't bother me, but it's not my thing.

kns11 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 06:33 PM

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Porn doesn't both me so long as it's not the hard, hard core nasty shiit. I used to be friends with a gal who was a stripper so no issue there. Strip clubs are fine for anyone to visit except for my husband LOL. Actually I would not want him going unless I was with him. It's not that I don't trust him I just don't trust the guys I know who would be in his company.

HeatherRose Posted: Dec 11, 2007 06:53 PM

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Posted by jtgarsik

i think everybody has their own opinion on the issue. For both of us it's a no-no. It's not a trust issue at all, just a respect thing. I don't think going and lustfully enjoying naked men/women is respectful to ur husband or wife. simply jmo. some people are all about it & thats okay if u're u & ur hubby/wife are on the same page...it's just not for us.

Very well said

this is exactly how we both feel

werock0709 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 07:05 PM

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Posted by jtgarsik

i think everybody has their own opinion on the issue. For both of us it's a no-no. It's not a trust issue at all, just a respect thing. I don't think going and lustfully enjoying naked men/women is respectful to ur husband or wife. simply jmo. some people are all about it & thats okay if u're u & ur hubby/wife are on the same page...it's just not for us.

Thats my opinion as well

diva7531 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 07:53 PM

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Love porn, not a fan of strippers. Well, male strippers. They are all gay! Chick strippers are OK, I don't care for strip clubs, but to each his own.

FullersBride Posted: Dec 11, 2007 08:16 PM

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Neither really bother me. DH and I have a VERY VERY secure relationship. He is in sales and a lot of times on buissness trips when he takes a bunch of clients out to dinner, predominantly male, they end up in a strip club. He goes, no biggie. He usually calls me to tell me, I think it's funny and I tell him to say 'HI' to the girls for me

Brian and Marie Posted: Dec 11, 2007 08:48 PM

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I PORN!!!

HamptonsBride Posted: Dec 11, 2007 08:56 PM

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Well in my younger days I went to 2 strips clubs with an ExBF..one in Philly that was actually pretty fun...(i was more amazed how these chicks could hang upside down with one leg from a pole! haha)...and since the Ex was from Philly i took him to Scores in NY as part of a night on the town in NYC...porn doesn't really bother me either....