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How long do you plan to stay out of work when you have children?

MrsD71208 Posted:

How long do you plan to stay out of work when you have children?

Just curious....

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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probably 3 months..

jtgarsik Posted:

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i would love to stay home untill they are in school...but i guess it's one of those things that u cross when u come to it.

lizzie217 Posted:

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In a perfect world (which it isnt so we shall see)


I work the NYC Dept of ed. and one of the great benefits is that I have the right to take child care leave and walk right back into my position any time up until my child enters kindergarden (unpaid of course). I would ideally love to stay home until then or pre-k...but I am not pregnant yet and dont plan on it for probaly 3 more years.....I know that many things can change between now and then so this is my tentative answer
msabla1 Posted:

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I plan on staying home until 1st grade, then maybe going back to work part-time only pending financial situation. DH agrees!

shopaholic07 Posted:

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I plan on staying home forever, lol.

emomma17 Posted:

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Until my maternity leave allows me and any accrued vacation time I saved up.

FinallyMrsB18 Posted:

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as long as possible...
i would love to be able to stay our of work until the youngest was in school
Toucan311 Posted:

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Ideally I'd just like to stay home, but feminism ruined that for most of us.

TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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not having kids anytime soon, but i do not have to work regardless kids or not

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted:

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Posted by emomma17

Until my maternity leave allows me and any accrued vacation time I saved up.



unfortunately i have to do the same...we dont have enough money for me to be able to stay home longer then what i get paid for

Because im a teacher I am attempting to plan it right (try to get as close as i can-hoping that i dont have problems ttc) where i get my time off plus whatever sick days in my bank that i can use and it be close to the summer so that i will have the whole summer off with my child also
del Rio Posted:

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Posted by emomma17

Until my maternity leave allows me and any accrued vacation time I saved up.



Same here.
ant n tilde Posted:

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about three months. i dont have maternity leave, i have to use my sick and vacation leave. I also dont want to go down to a zero balance bc I dont want to wait forever for a second

RockysGirl Posted:

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I definitely do not want my kids in a daycare all day long. I used to work at one, so I know what goes down and I really want to be able raise to my OWN children. I plan to stay home until they're all in school (kindergarten). If i need to work though, it will only be part time, or I'll be setting my house up as a home daycare, that way I'm with my own children, as well as babysitting a few others. You get paid pretty darn good for that too - my mother did it for a couple years when I was in Elementary School.

That's the plan at least
MSeed Posted:

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Until the maternity leave runs out!

ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Ideally I'd just like to stay home, but feminism ruined that for most of us.




a woman after my own <3
Kris0703 Posted:

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Posted by RockysGirl

I am definitely not one of those people who will be putting my kids in a daycare all day long. I hate that.



That's a little harsh..... most of 'those people' HAVE to work to support their families.
bluekat16 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

Ideally I'd just like to stay home, but feminism ruined that for most of us.



Totally feel the same way. However, it will be until maternity leave runs out.
RockysGirl Posted:

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Posted by Kris0703


Posted by RockysGirl

I am definitely not one of those people who will be putting my kids in a daycare all day long. I hate that.



That's a little harsh..... most of 'those people' HAVE to work to support their families.



I know, I'm sorry for the way I worded that. That's why I went back and edited. I didn't mean for it to come out that way at all. Sorry if I offended anybody.
Kris0703 Posted:

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Posted by RockysGirl


Posted by Kris0703


Posted by RockysGirl

I am definitely not one of those people who will be putting my kids in a daycare all day long. I hate that.



That's a little harsh..... most of 'those people' HAVE to work to support their families.



I know, I'm sorry for the way I worded that. That's why I went back and edited. I didn't mean for it to come out that way at all. Sorry if I offended anybody.



lol, no harm, no foul.

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