How often do you speak/see the people who were in your wedding?
Original post by Jackiwedd
I really dont see any of my bridesmaids. I guess with the way people schedules are, it makes it difficult. I see the guys all the time...more than i want to. just curious
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we see the guys much more often than the girls.
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Posted by TracyInQueens
I've hardly seen any of my friends, including the BP, since my wedding. I've just realized that I've been a little self-absorbed since the wedding, I've just wanted to hang out with DH and I've been very stressed out from my job. When that happens I just shut down and don't reach out to my friends, but I need to.
DITTO I'm the same way!!!!
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We see the girls more than the guys, but that's because DH doesn't really make a lot of effort to stay in touch with his friends.
We'll probably see less of everyone now that we've moved, but I've still got email!
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We've been trying to make a point of seeing those friends that were at the wedding. Our wedding day was such an eye opener and very significant to us because we saw who really was important and those that truly supported us. 'Friends' that we thought were close to us and we put a lot of effort into maintaining friendships with prior to the wedding, last minute-couldn't make it (and we haven't heard from them since), and other guests that we haven't seen in over a year, ended up coming and being early etc.... So we really appreciated everyone there that day because it was such a positive feeling and we really want life long relationships with these special people.
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My BP consisted of my MOH who is a good friend & I still talk to her at least once a week. My BM were, My daughter, 2 nieces, SIL. So I talk to them all the time!!!! The Guys were all family too so we talk to them too!!!
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I speak to my bridemaids about once every couple weeks - but we usually email each other regularly - just to say hi - or we email each other jokes - but our busy schedules does make it harder to see each other more often
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Out of my 5 bridesmaids, I don't speak to 1 of them. She lives in Florida and after the wedding, I never heard from her again.
The other ones I speak to all the time. In fact one of them is going to be the godmother to my baby.
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I see them and talk to them pretty much as often as I did before the wedding.
Alot of them moved away during the wedding planning so of course I see them less. My MOH is currently studying for her PT license so she is very busy and she is the one I used to the most that now I see the least.
DH now works out everyday with one of our GMs.
But everyone in my BP was family (a cousin or a sibling) so we are still very close.
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not as much as I would like to! While planning the wedding, I was saving money so I rarely went out....so I lost touch with a few people.. we try to rekindle the friendships...but it's tough because we all have so much going on.
Dh's friends, on the other hand, we see a lot
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Posted by TracyInQueens
I've hardly seen any of my friends, including the BP, since my wedding. I've just realized that I've been a little self-absorbed since the wedding, I've just wanted to hang out with DH and I've been very stressed out from my job. When that happens I just shut down and don't reach out to my friends, but I need to.
ditto!
i've seen two b/m each once, spoken to moh once, and the fourth b/m is my sil who is pregnant and lives 5 hours away. not exactly my best friend, but the one i see the most
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I only had sisters and my neice, plus my best friend. I talk to them constantly.
The guys however, DH doesn't speak to them that often, but they are guys and I'm told 'they don't need to talk every day'
