Does it make it worse that the groom-to-be says he wants you there, but the GF is adamant that you are not welcome? You've personally known the groom for 8 years... and he was the best man at your own wedding. You met the girl once in a party setting and she went off to an empty table and painted her acrylic tips instead of conversing.
For the record, they were both invited to your wedding, although the GF chose not to come.
...they just set the date - the wedding is 6 months away.
I don't know why this minutia is even bothering me.... thankfully my DH has decided to do the right thing (in my opinion) and stand up for me by NOT GOING unless I'm welcome. Love him!
People actually DO this?!?!?
I've already gotten a few opinions and most seem to think this chick has maturity issues.
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wow, I definitely think that not being invited is not right-I think if she CHOSE not to come to my wedding the least she could do is give you the benefit of the doubt and let me CHOOSE not to come.
not right, good for Dh sticking up
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I just looked back at the card from our wedding and it was signed both of them...
Aug07OFCbride
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thats kinda weird, i think you should be invited!
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Ran this one past my DH, he's my voice of reason when it comes to things like this ...
And he says the GF is the worst kind of person!
And if your DH is worth anything, he wouldn't have any part of this wedding.
(I didn't tell him what your DH said until after asking him the question)
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something sounds off. Is this girl medicated?
She has some major issues.. not sure what they are .. but looks like your one of them
Good for the DH standing up for you
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So wait, your DH is invited and not you?!?!?!?!?!
Uhm, no, neither of us would be going, and my DH would say the same thing!
Plain rude!
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I just have 3 words....W T F???? First of all...how could someone not like YOU???? And what is she in HS...that she's having a 'party' and you can't come???? hahaha....your DH gets super bonus points for standing up for you!
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It sounds like she is doing you a favor by not inviting you. Who would want to celebrate anything with that sour puss?
Did the invites come yet? How can you know your not invited yet?
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It sounds like she is doing you a favor by not inviting you. Who would want to celebrate anything with that sour puss?
Did the invites come yet? How can you know your not invited yet?
groom called and 'warned' DH.
Yeah, you're right - she probably is doing me a favor....but that's not going to stop me from getting upset over it!
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It sounds like she is doing you a favor by not inviting you. Who would want to celebrate anything with that sour puss?
Did the invites come yet? How can you know your not invited yet?
groom called and 'warned' DH.
Yeah, you're right - she probably is doing me a favor....but that's not going to stop me from getting upset over it!
The groom needs to stop being such a vagina. Does he know what he is getting into if his best friend's wife can't come to the wedding? I would have a hard time being friends with someone who told me my DH was not welcome. We come as a set, not sold separately.
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It sounds like she is doing you a favor by not inviting you. Who would want to celebrate anything with that sour puss?
Did the invites come yet? How can you know your not invited yet?
groom called and 'warned' DH.
Yeah, you're right - she probably is doing me a favor....but that's not going to stop me from getting upset over it!
The groom needs to stop being such a vagina. Does he know what he is getting into if his best friend's wife can't come to the wedding? I would have a hard time being friends with someone who told me my DH was not welcome. We come as a set, not sold separately.
bwaaaaaaahahahhaahahhahahaha you're my favorite
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Good for your DH for doing the right thing....that girl has a lot of balls to do something like that. That is really messed up.
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hahaha what'd you do to p i s s her off?
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hahaha what'd you do to p i s s her off?
eh she's just a skank.
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ur DH is the best man?!?!?!!! not inviting u is entirely ridiculous. this girl obviously has no class & is extremely immature..
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is this for real??? W T F is wrong with people! I'm glad your DH is standing ground!!!!
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i think it's ridiculous to not be invited to a wedding regardless of your husband being the best man. whatever the next degree is after ridiculous ( maybe insane?) is how i feel about u not being invited.
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Wow I cant believe the balls of some people ! I couldnt imagine Dh being part of a bridal party and me not even being invited...that to me is just insane...I know for any wedding either of us have been in the other one was always there ...for our wedding we did pics before hand and had food/drinks in the bridal suite because we had the significant other of our bridal parts members there early so we could get a prof pic of each couple....as past of their gifts......wow I am still floored by this
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Wow, this chick sounds very insecure. How can you not invite a married couple as a couple. to your DH for sticking up for you.
Mine would do the same thing. As he says, we are a package deal now.
IMO, at this point even if I did receive an invite, I'd decline just because I knew I wasn't welcome at one point.
