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I am so angry!!!

Jennifer907 Posted:

I am so angry!!!

My MIL is a psychotic biotch! I just sent our Christmas cards out yesterday. When I was doing them, I asked DH if he wanted one to go to his parents and he did, so I sent one without a handwritten message. It just had our printed standard message and signature inside. Well, she called DH today as soon as she got it flipping out. Here's why:
1. I addressed the envelope Jane and John Smith instead of Mr. and Mrs. John Smith. OMFG these are xmas cards, not wedding invitations!
2. If we have the $$$ to spend on xmas cards, why can't we give her more (DH is paying her back money he owes her). She is constantly trying to find out how much $$$ we have and what we spend it on.
3. We shouldn't have put wedding pictures on it. She also went on to say she asked for a picture of us from the wedding and we won't give her one. Umm, no, you asked for a pic of you and your boyfriend and when we offered you an album as a gift you told us you would rip up the pages and throw them at us. So no, you're not getting ANY pictures now. Enjoy the ones on the card.
4. Why haven't our wedding TYs gone out yet?

Then she tells Dh not to bother coming over for Xmas since he prob wasn't going to show anyway (which he told her he was going there for xmas eve) and then told him to go F himself. She drives me up the effing wall. I swear, I'm never doing a darn thing for that woman again. I tried to do something nice, and that's what I got.


ETA: I forgot the best part...I used blue ink, not black! Her TY card is going to be written with purple crayon!
EverlovingEv Posted:

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omg!!

She sounds horrible!


I'm sorry chica!
WilliesBride Posted:

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OH- MY GOD..........I'm so sorry!!!!
Mich0621 Posted:

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Wow, I am sorry, but your MIL is a psycho...I feel bad for you. I am so sorry for you!

werock0709 Posted:

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Thats real class telling her son to F himself and not come over for X-mas. Definately NOT dealing with a full deck there honey.I'm sorry
Sept07Bride Posted:

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What a Biitch!!! I'm sorry you have to deal with someone like that, and worse call them Family. Your poor DH!!!
kns11 Posted:

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Yikes! Sorry your MIL is being such a pain. Hopefully in time she will calm down. I cannot believe she is already giving you pressure about receiving a thank you card. We're still waiting for one from a wedding in Feb. My friend is very indecisive so we're actually laughing about it.

babygirl71777 Posted:

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Jen you and I need to get together a.s.a.p to chatt! because i think our mother in laws should be sisters!!! wow not to be mean but im glad i have someone eles in my shoes dealing with this! well im here for you to vent! you know what im going through with my mother in law too!! CRAZY WOMAN!!!
cookiemonster Posted:

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Hang in there and don't take it personally. My mom has a great saying: 'You can't rationalize with irrational people.' Your MIL sounds more than irrational!!!
medic6809 Posted:

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some people are kids dressed up as adults in disguise
PegaLega Posted:

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She is AWFUL! And obviously has some major issues! Im sorry that you have to deal with her

jtgarsik Posted:

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omg.lol.i dont mean to laugh but there is really no other response! b*tch flipped her lid! i am so SO sorry that u have to deal with her!

PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by werock0709

Thats real class telling her son to F himself and not come over for X-mas. Definately NOT dealing with a full deck there honey.I'm sorry



Wooo boy. Your MIL sounds like JLo's Monster-In_Law but somehow I dont see a hollywood happy ending in your future. I'm sorry sugar. MIL's are tricky things even when they're decent because boys are usually really loyal to their mommas even if they are horrid beasts that should be used for animal testing that involved electric probes and their buttocks.

I would say the only thing you can do is remind yourself when you get upset that SHE is the problem, not you. She would be miserabele no matter what you did. I remember you telling us about the album thing. What a witch.

Next time she says F you to DH or you, just smile and say 'BLESS you.' Will infuritate her lmao I;ve done it. Calm is the best way to deal with miserable jerks
dgirl0114 Posted:

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OMG, sweetie!! I can't even imagine being in your shoes. I don't know if I could deal with that at all.

vika111 Posted:

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What a witch! I hope you don't have to deal with her too often

MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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W.O.W. She's seriously off her rocker. I feel so bad that you constantly have to deal with this!
bonitachyc Posted:

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you have a monster in law Jenn, seriously! i'm so sorry you have her in your family now, but rest assured we can all agree she's nutso!!!

staceylacey Posted:

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We have a word for people like that at my job.................... 612 ......Pronounced 6- 12 .....and that means CRAZY!!!!! Its perfect cause you can use it right in from of the 612 and they dont know ha ha sorry had to share. Im so sorry for you but at least you can vent to us about it and some of us can relate!!!! Sorry hun

SusiBtoM Posted:

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Sorry that you have to deal with someone like that.

People can be so strange sometimes.......
Nina_m74 Posted:

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OMG she is crazy! I so would have just hung up on her!

I'm sorry you have to deal with her

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