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I cant believe this BS

Espo22 Posted:

I cant believe this BS

Let me say first that i can deal with alot of BS and people but my new job is just way too much. To prove how insane it is, everybody besides the boss and one lady who works there and dont know why she stays, but everybody else is there under a month, which was a big sign when all employee's are basically new at a place that is not new. The first day she shows me to my office and thats it, doesnt show me around which ok fine. I have never seen a more messy, dirty place. My desk you couldnt even see bc there were stacks and stacks of papers, folders with papers coming out of it, and i mean like 50 or more folders and loose papers everywhere, even on the floor, it was a disaster. I had to file everything away bc i cant work like that. Now from the first day i knew something was VERY weird, bc i guess im in the old office managers office, and she still had tons of her paperwork there. There were also boxes of resumes under the desk which i found weird and half the files on the comp are resumes. But i found alot of employee contracts, and then the same employee's resignation letters just 1-3 months later, i looked online at other files and everybody leaves right away, somebody even resigned after 3 days lol. They also had tons of time sheets from employment agencies bc they had to have temps all year round since most of their employee's leave. Infact now half the positions arent filled bc people left. The funny thing is that there were 4 of us who were new, one girl quit yesterday and another one didnt come today, i think she quit also. IN YEARS they havent had any employee's stay more than a few short months, and most after just 1-2 months.

I also found a stack of memo's that the boss writes to employee's that are insane. The persons office that i am in now, had a ton of crazy memo's the boss would write to her and constantly. I also saw a folder filled for others that were all memo's. Telling one person not to have idle chatter with customers and if they cant do this then to resign, since when dont you talk to customers lol, oh yeah and we cant talk to eachother either, only if its about work otherwise we are told no idle chatter, and we cant ever make personal phone calls or anything like that. Memo's about how somebody formatted the letter wrong which ill say other businesses dont do it like him, but why not just tell the person, instead he says its unacceptable and told the person maybe they should resign. Its crazy bc another thing is they dont tell you what to do, its like they'll quickly say something, and wont tell you how they want it or where anything is. Today me and another girl wasted an hour to find info that they couldnt tell us where it was, they get annoyed if you ask. I even asked a question today about what he wanted me to do with these certain invoices since they were all wrong but kept asking me to add it to the total, and he just yelled. Oh and he yells like a maniac all the time, not even normal boss type yelling, but i mean going nuts. I feel so bad for the receptionist bc ive heard him go off on her so much and real nasty and horrible, he even started slamming her phone. And thats just part of it, theres so much more.

Today they had me to 2 years worth of work that hasnt been done, all in like an hour which i didnt know what they were thinking, there was no way possible considering all i had to do. I got to work before 8am, had a ton of stuff to do before even doing that. Then towards end of day when i was trying to finish it, he says he needs it all done by tonight bc he needs it tomorrow morning, bc its due tomorrow, but he waited until today to do this, this was 2 years worth of invoices not entered, including the spreadsheets he wanted with all of them including a description of it all and to check them all. I stayed until 7pm doing it, and then when i was done and said i checked quickbooks to make sure if invoices were paid, i get told that no not everything is paid through there so to look for the hard copy. I say ok and ask where it is, it was in filing cabinets. So i say ok i could do this quick. I go to check and see there is no file for this company we were billing so i ask where the file is, they say there is no file. So for example the whole year of 2008, there were folders by months, jan 08, feb 08 and so on, and each folder contained a massive amount of papers, and each one had a list of those who paid, either written down or typed up but no actual invoices. Everything was a mess. I looked and realized quickly how long it would take to go through each month just to look for each payment this company sent, which btw there were 190 invoices for 2008. It wouldve taken a long time and i wouldnt have gotten out until 9pm, it was already after 7pm already. Also i didnt even get to go to lunch today, i had to work through lunch bc while i was trying to get this done he kept giving other things to do. I was seriously starting to feel sick since i didnt eat anything all day and from before 8am working non-stop until after 7pm. The other girl gets in at 7am and she was still there and was trying to get out of there while i was leaving, she was so upset. She spent so much time figuring out how to do something bc they wouldnt show her when she asked.

I said if i can finish it in the morning bc i had to go, i had to meet with someone at 7:30pm and i was already late, which i was and i was so annoyed i even said that i wasnt feeling well, i hadnt eaten a thing and for 11 hours didnt have a moment to stop. She seemed a bit annoyed but i wasnt about to stay until 10pm, and then get home at 11pm and wake up at 6am. I dont mind busting my a*8 but not for ppl who treat you like sh*t and yell, and dont show you stuff, and expect you to do 2 years worth of work in forget one whole day but a few hours. Was i wrong to leave? now i keep thinking of the BS im going to deal with tomorrow but i couldnt at that moment. Ill do it quickly in the morning although with 2 other girls quitting this week, ill probably be given a million other things to do. Oh yeah and have to work some sat's, same hours, so i think i might have to do it this sat. Oh yeah and i saw their unemployment folder for just 08 and i swear it takes up most of the filing cabinet, now i know why. And im supposed to get out at 6 but i doubt that will ever happen, at a few mins before 6pm they always find something to give me that needs to be done then, i get home past 8 and the commute is not long so get out past 7. Yesterday i went into the girls office that quit, omg there were invoices all over the floor i had to watch not to step on it, all over the desks falling over, its a disaster.

I dont know what the point of this was but i am so mad i had to vent and let it out. Sorry for the length of this too. I just realized how long it was
lizzie217 Posted:

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Denise this job sounds insane! It seems like they are abusive to staff which is why they have such a quick turn around.

Im sorry that your in this situation it really is tough because of course you want to stick it out and I guess for a while you will but in reality a job like this does not sound healthy for anyone. Don't beat yourself up over it (that's what I would do). I am sure you will give your best to a bad situation but just remeber there is a reason why so many people quit in such a short time.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by lizzie217

Denise this job sounds insane! It seems like they are abusive to staff which is why they have such a quick turn around.

Im sorry that your in this situation it really is tough because of course you want to stick it out and I guess for a while you will but in reality a job like this does not sound healthy for anyone. Don't beat yourself up over it (that's what I would do). I am sure you will give your best to a bad situation but just remeber there is a reason why so many people quit in such a short time.



thats what i dont get, they have so many ppl quit that nobody stays around to really learn everything and actually able to help them which they need. Why wouldnt they want ppl to stay lol, its as if they dont care. And that lady works everyday from 7am-7:30pm or even later and every sat the same hours, and she doesnt get a moment to breathe bc she has to do so much of the work, especially with no office manager right now. You would think they would realize that nobody is going to want to stay. Seems like everybody is there until they find something, the other girls told me the same and well one of them fought with them yesterday bc of something they did and the other i dont know how she quit but she even left early yesterday, so something must've happened.

But thank you so much i do want to stick it out at least until i find something else, i hated being out of work and was so happy to find something but oh god i didnt expect this lol
lizzie217 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by lizzie217

Denise this job sounds insane! It seems like they are abusive to staff which is why they have such a quick turn around.

Im sorry that your in this situation it really is tough because of course you want to stick it out and I guess for a while you will but in reality a job like this does not sound healthy for anyone. Don't beat yourself up over it (that's what I would do). I am sure you will give your best to a bad situation but just remeber there is a reason why so many people quit in such a short time.



thats what i dont get, they have so many ppl quit that nobody stays around to really learn everything and actually able to help them which they need. Why wouldnt they want ppl to stay lol, its as if they dont care. And that lady works everyday from 7am-7:30pm or even later and every sat the same hours, and she doesnt get a moment to breathe bc she has to do so much of the work, especially with no office manager right now. You would think they would realize that nobody is going to want to stay. Seems like everybody is there until they find something, the other girls told me the same and well one of them fought with them yesterday bc of something they did and the other i dont know how she quit but she even left early yesterday, so something must've happened.

But thank you so much i do want to stick it out at least until i find something else, i hated being out of work and was so happy to find something but oh god i didnt expect this lol



Well the lady who has been there for a while sounds like a masocist (sp?) some people are truly workaholics and dont mind being at work all day, maybe thats her who knows...but it does not ound like a good work enviroment ... ugh its so annoying but you know sometimes with jobs you have to change a couple times before you find the right fit and you will
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by lizzie217


Posted by Espo22


Posted by lizzie217

Denise this job sounds insane! It seems like they are abusive to staff which is why they have such a quick turn around.

Im sorry that your in this situation it really is tough because of course you want to stick it out and I guess for a while you will but in reality a job like this does not sound healthy for anyone. Don't beat yourself up over it (that's what I would do). I am sure you will give your best to a bad situation but just remeber there is a reason why so many people quit in such a short time.



thats what i dont get, they have so many ppl quit that nobody stays around to really learn everything and actually able to help them which they need. Why wouldnt they want ppl to stay lol, its as if they dont care. And that lady works everyday from 7am-7:30pm or even later and every sat the same hours, and she doesnt get a moment to breathe bc she has to do so much of the work, especially with no office manager right now. You would think they would realize that nobody is going to want to stay. Seems like everybody is there until they find something, the other girls told me the same and well one of them fought with them yesterday bc of something they did and the other i dont know how she quit but she even left early yesterday, so something must've happened.

But thank you so much i do want to stick it out at least until i find something else, i hated being out of work and was so happy to find something but oh god i didnt expect this lol



Well the lady who has been there for a while sounds like a masocist (sp?) some people are truly workaholics and dont mind being at work all day, maybe thats her who knows...but it does not ound like a good work enviroment ... ugh its so annoying but you know sometimes with jobs you have to change a couple times before you find the right fit and you will



i know, what kind of life is that. Dh was saying that she prob makes good money but whats the point if you dont ever get to enjoy it ya know, i mean spending 13+ hours at work everyday for 6x a week, You basically live at work. And i understand doing what you gotta do and wouldnt mind staying late but why do it for ppl who treat you like that ya know

thanks again for listening
Cutechef729 Posted:

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I'm so sorry Denise! I know it's hard when you start a new job and its so overwhelming. You want to stick it out but it's so exhausting. You will get through it. It's good that you left tonight. Come vent to us!
jeanyus27 Posted:

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OMG that place sounds crazy! How did they let it get to be such a mess? And the fact that they don't want to answer any questions or show you anything IS BS! So sorry this job isn't what you expected, but at least you have something while you search for better!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Cutechef729

I'm so sorry Denise! I know it's hard when you start a new job and its so overwhelming. You want to stick it out but it's so exhausting. You will get through it. It's good that you left tonight. Come vent to us!



ive never started a place like this lol, its usually overwhelming bc you have to learn that companies procedures since everybody does things differently but they dont even want to show you lol, and then you get yelled at for everything lol. But thank you, so much.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by jeanyus27

OMG that place sounds crazy! How did they let it get to be such a mess? And the fact that they don't want to answer any questions or show you anything IS BS! So sorry this job isn't what you expected, but at least you have something while you search for better!



its a mad house, not only is it messy but its filthy. This girl told me she stopped wearing her nice clothes to work bc they got so dirty. Whenever im there i get so itchy and cough non-stop bc of all the dust. Its so backwards. Its funny bc years ago i had a boss who screamed all the time, whenever he had his moments but was able to deal with him lol. He also had moments where he was nice at least lol. But if he were to do to me what he does to the receptionist, i would be so upset, i mean going up to her face and slamming her phone, that is just too much. Today he screamed so loud i heard him down the hall and jumped bc it startled me. Today i felt so bad bc she was also there for 12 hours with no lunch, and i said why are you still here, and said im leaving. She looked so sad and said yeah i dont know much more of him screaming at me like that i can take. And when i was leaving they had her looking up train schedules couldnt they do that themselves, let the poor girl go home
Cutechef729 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by Cutechef729

I'm so sorry Denise! I know it's hard when you start a new job and its so overwhelming. You want to stick it out but it's so exhausting. You will get through it. It's good that you left tonight. Come vent to us!



ive never started a place like this lol, its usually overwhelming bc you have to learn that companies procedures since everybody does things differently but they dont even want to show you lol, and then you get yelled at for everything lol. But thank you, so much.



I just started a new job in September and I didn't have any problems with getting help/support from my boss but I took over for a manager that didn't do anything for 20 years so there were many issues to clean up. I also would look for files/important documents from the past year or so and it would be gone. It was so stressful because I was a new manager and on top of that I kept having to deal with issues from previous years (like bank statements). It was tough! I definitely learned so much so that was great but it was so hard while I was experiencing it. I know exactly what you mean. I was so used to that but now I just moved and I feel like I'm slacking off when I'm actually just doing what I'm supposed to and it's not so hard.
Have a glass of wine or make DH give you a massage or something lol.
Jenn04 Posted:

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What kind of place is that...it sounds RIDICULOUS! WOW - I cannot believe the madness! I say take one day at a time but if they are going to be nasty that is no place for you!

I actually worked for a 'screamer' once. I steered clear of her for 8 months and finally she got to me one day and screamed and screamed and my boss turned into a monster and 2 weeks later I quit! Ughh. I feel your pain! I cannot belive the memos part - that is just dumb. He wants to document everything for some reason.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Cutechef729


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Posted by Cutechef729

I'm so sorry Denise! I know it's hard when you start a new job and its so overwhelming. You want to stick it out but it's so exhausting. You will get through it. It's good that you left tonight. Come vent to us!



ive never started a place like this lol, its usually overwhelming bc you have to learn that companies procedures since everybody does things differently but they dont even want to show you lol, and then you get yelled at for everything lol. But thank you, so much.



I just started a new job in September and I didn't have any problems with getting help/support from my boss but I took over for a manager that didn't do anything for 20 years so there were many issues to clean up. I also would look for files/important documents from the past year or so and it would be gone. It was so stressful because I was a new manager and on top of that I kept having to deal with issues from previous years (like bank statements). It was tough! I definitely learned so much so that was great but it was so hard while I was experiencing it. I know exactly what you mean. I was so used to that but now I just moved and I feel like I'm slacking off when I'm actually just doing what I'm supposed to and it's not so hard.
Have a glass of wine or make DH give you a massage or something lol.



fixing the problems i dont mind, i like it bc for example i have so many invoices to fix its insane but i take them, sit down and think ok good this will keep me busy for a while and make the time fly. This morning i was actually happy bc i had so much to do and was left alone and time was flying. But then afternoon comes and youwould think with such a huge project to do i'd be left to do it but no im given a million things to do, and things like looking for stuff online for him and sending a ton of emails to ppl bc he cant do it. I wish they just left me alone to fix all the problems. I even took it upon myself to really clean up, my desk is so clean now, and i filed things and started organizing. I actually also made folders for every company and alphabetized them and putting them neatly so this way invoices can actually be found bc otherwise you had to go looking for it on the floor, in one of the many offices, on some desk or in a box.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

What kind of place is that...it sounds RIDICULOUS! WOW - I cannot believe the madness! I say take one day at a time but if they are going to be nasty that is no place for you!

I actually worked for a 'screamer' once. I steered clear of her for 8 months and finally she got to me one day and screamed and screamed and my boss turned into a monster and 2 weeks later I quit! Ughh. I feel your pain! I cannot belive the memos part - that is just dumb. He wants to document everything for some reason.



yeah the memo's part i had to laugh at, i mean he does it for every little thing, its crazy lol. Just tell a person, hey this isnt formatted right can you do this. One memo he was forbidding the receptionist from talking to customers, it said thats enough you are now forbidden

and yeah talk about documenting everything. The receptionist has to write down each person who calls even when they take the call, so they go through a message book a day. Then she has to write it all down on paper, each message from that day. Each fax sent you have to put into a book and each fax ever received. Theres a million lists for each thing.

Well right this moment im applying for other places lol
Jenn04 Posted:

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Wow - he is a total micro-manager. That is so insane. How long has the receptionist been there. I wonder if anyone has ever told him off?

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Wow - he is a total micro-manager. That is so insane. How long has the receptionist been there. I wonder if anyone has ever told him off?



the receptionist has only been there a month. Like i said, there were 4 of us and we all have been there under a month and 2 quit this week lol. The only person who has stayed is the manager, not office manager but manager of the jobs they do. The girl who quit yesterday got into an arguement with them and went off.
MCA1180 Posted:

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OMG that totally sounds like my old job... so sorry you have to deal with such cr@p! I hated it too! I would seriously cry in the bathroom like everyday lol... I'll bet they don't answer your questions because they honestly don't know how to do things or where things are, with such a high turnover rate they can't keep track of anything either, so they just expect you to know cuz they have no clue! Stand your ground and don't let them bully you! It's not healthy for you to work all day without taking a breather, without taking lunch, tell them whatever it is will just have to wait until you're back!

Kimbalina Posted:

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I am glad that you are applying other places because this sounds like a train wreck!! I would not want to work in that environment either.

Good Luck!
TommysWife08 Posted:

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wow. i got stressed out just reading that lol

i'm sorry

where do you work?!
SB7308 Posted:

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WOW Denise, that job/office sounds crazy!! I dont know how you are still there?! Are you considering staying?
Legally, you should be taking a lunch HOUR!!! You should not do that to yourself (not eat all day). Eat at your desk if you have to. You are going to get yourself sick! They cannot stop you from eating. What are they going to do fire your for having lunch?

I hope it gets easier for you!!!

This sounds similar to my old job.. I called it HELLL!!!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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that sounds scary! i hope you are getting paid good hahahaha......

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