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Future Mrs H Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:26 PM+

Future Mrs H MEMBER SINCE: 10/08 TOTAL POSTS : 22386 WEDDING DATE: Sep 18, 2010

Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:26 PM

I dont know what to say to this

Remember I say about 2 weeks ago that my ex-husband passed away. Well I found out today that at the wake there were a whole bunch of pictures of me and him together!

I was in shock! Why would his sisters put those pictures up? I am sure there were plenty of other pictures that they could have used.

I just dont know

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:43 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:43 PM

Re: I dont know what to say to this

Maybe for them that was a happy time for him and they like to remember it that way? I wouldn't stress it . Its finally over.

little j Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:47 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:47 PM

Re: I dont know what to say to this

it just goes to show its a good thing you didnt go.

dont stress too much about it.

do the sisters like you? if so, they probably wanted (for themselves partially) the time that YOU were in his life

but its good you didnt go and didnt need to deal with that

just move forward chica!

Future Mrs H Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:58 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2011 01:58 PM

Re: I dont know what to say to this

Yes the sisters did like me. I heard that they only had nice things to say about me and that they understood why I didnt go.

I am not really stressing over it- I just didnt understand why they would put pics of me and him up.

I am really glad I didnt go now!

I also heard that he still had my wedding dress, didnt want to give it up and when he found out that Jerry and I got engaged that is when he fell off the wagon and started drinking again. He always thought that we would get back together.

halfbaked Posted: Jul 07, 2011 02:05 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2011 02:05 PM

Re: I dont know what to say to this

Probably because those were some of his fondest memories/happiest times.

mariedsgn Posted: Jul 07, 2011 03:05 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2011 03:05 PM

Re: I dont know what to say to this

Posted by jilliibabii

Probably because those were some of his fondest memories/happiest times.

I agree!

mybabylovesmoi Posted: Jul 07, 2011 03:10 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2011 03:10 PM

Re: I dont know what to say to this

Posted by Future Mrs H

I also heard that he still had my wedding dress, didnt want to give it up and when he found out that Jerry and I got engaged that is when he fell off the wagon and started drinking again. He always thought that we would get back together.