I need to add this to what Peg Said...read if you wish...no one will force you...Read this after reading Peg's post
Original post by Mich0621
Peg, I just got back and it is incredibly sad that no one has the guts to fess up who is causing all of this drama.
I love the fact that we are all supposed to be mature married women, and yet people are so brave when they can't be discovered, since you are too much a of a good person not to out the offenders, yet they have no guts to admit it in public.
Personally, I understand the realities of any chat forum, especially when you are dealing with a bunch of different people from different places, backgrounds, etc. Naturally, certain people will form bonds and friendships and certain people will not click. That is not a bad thing, and no one should have to feel like they are being ostracized or alienated.
But what was done to Peg was gutless. And with 554 views at presstime and 4 pages of responses, you would think those who did this would just be adults and fess up. No one deserves to be made to feel like garbage. If you don't like someone, that's fine. Keep it to yourself and your friends. However, I am ashamed that no one is coming out and admitting to being cruel and nasty. That is just pathetic. And whoever these people are should be ashamed to make someone so sick and upset.
There is no law that states you have to post to everyone. Personally, I like to share with the group, but I don't get offended if I don't click with someone or if people don't respond to me. We are adults. Get over it. You don't like me, I'll live. You don't like one of my good friends like Peg, I'll also live. I will still be married tomorrow, I will still share fun and laughs with everyone here, and life will continue as previously scheduled.
Bottom line. Whoever these people are owe Peg an apology. Don't take your issues out on another poster. If you don't like someone, ignore them. Don't post to their threads. They will live.
And some of those who complain about cliques on this board should re-examine their actions. Cliques, groups, or in reality, friendships develop. I know myself and Peg and other girls on this board will welcome anyone to our GTGs, or conversations with nothing more than open arms.
If you don't like this, don't post back to me. If you have a problem, share it with everyone and stop harassing and berating innocent girls who are just having fun.
Peg is a dear friend. We met here. We talk, we hang out. It happens. I am sure other girls have friends made here, and its a wonderful thing. We don't all have to hold hands and hug. And I will stand up for my girl, and any other people here who are unfairly targeted.
Once again, if you don't like this, don't respond. And don't view it 20 times and talk behind my back or anyone else's back. If you are brave enough, say it to our faces. We will get over it. And maybe, we can put this to rest, where it should be.
Brian and Marie
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Posted by Mich0621
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I am so lost!
Wow, living 3000 miles away really makes a person feel out of the loop!
see you should move to cloudy cold NY!
that's one idea. OR you could move LIW and the whole gang over here to beautiful sunny 70 degree san diego!
can I move in with you and Steve????
Me too? I don't eat much!
sure! and i'll cook and bake for all of us!
ME TOO ME TOO
Mich0621
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Posted by Mich0621
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Posted by hayleyandsteve
Posted by PegaLega
Posted by hayleyandsteve
I am so lost!
Wow, living 3000 miles away really makes a person feel out of the loop!
see you should move to cloudy cold NY!
that's one idea. OR you could move LIW and the whole gang over here to beautiful sunny 70 degree san diego!
can I move in with you and Steve????
Me too? I don't eat much!
sure! and i'll cook and bake for all of us!
And you cook good!
Mich0621
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With all these views on both threads, notice we have no admissions of guilt from the perpetrators?
Bring it! We can take it.
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I'm not exactly sure what this is about.. but I am sorry Pegs got hurt..
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by carolinebr
that post was very well written.
But I am still lost as to what exactly happened?
same here! what the heck did i miss? sounds mean. peg we love ya here!
someone fill me in.
eta: nm, saw other thread. yikes!
DNicholes
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Well written
milana
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How about everyone moves to california so hayley and I can host the next LIW GTG
Peg doesnt deserve this whoever this meanie is! Shes a wonderful person and shouldnt be singled out for being some sort of leader of cliques lol.
kris01
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very well said..... but I am lost...what happened?
Mich0621
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Posted by milana
How about everyone moves to california so hayley and I can host the next LIW GTG
Peg doesnt deserve this whoever this meanie is! Shes a wonderful person and shouldnt be singled out for being some sort of leader of cliques lol.
Only if we split time between your house and Hayley's...it will all depend on who makes the better dinner that night!
Mich0621
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Posted by carolinebr
that post was very well written.
But I am still lost as to what exactly happened?
same here! what the heck did i miss? sounds mean. peg we love ya here!
someone fill me in.
eta: nm, saw other thread. yikes!
Bumping Peg's post...that will fill everyone in!
milana
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Posted by milana
How about everyone moves to california so hayley and I can host the next LIW GTG
Peg doesnt deserve this whoever this meanie is! Shes a wonderful person and shouldnt be singled out for being some sort of leader of cliques lol.
Only if we split time between your house and Hayley's...it will all depend on who makes the better dinner that night!
hmmm that sounds fair enough....how many of you like matzo ball soup, i bet i make better matzo balls than hayley? lol
Mich0621
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Posted by milana
How about everyone moves to california so hayley and I can host the next LIW GTG
Peg doesnt deserve this whoever this meanie is! Shes a wonderful person and shouldnt be singled out for being some sort of leader of cliques lol.
Only if we split time between your house and Hayley's...it will all depend on who makes the better dinner that night!
hmmm that sounds fair enough....how many of you like matzo ball soup, i bet i make better matzo balls than hayley? lol
Well, you better! We are good Jewish mamala shanas! (Milana, you better know some Yiddush)
I'll light the Shabbos candles too!
milana
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Posted by Mich0621
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Posted by Mich0621
Posted by milana
How about everyone moves to california so hayley and I can host the next LIW GTG
Peg doesnt deserve this whoever this meanie is! Shes a wonderful person and shouldnt be singled out for being some sort of leader of cliques lol.
Only if we split time between your house and Hayley's...it will all depend on who makes the better dinner that night!
hmmm that sounds fair enough....how many of you like matzo ball soup, i bet i make better matzo balls than hayley? lol
Well, you better! We are good Jewish mamala shanas! (Milana, you better know some Yiddush)
I'll light the Shabbos candles too!
i need to get crackin on my yiddish...atleast i can still speak russian lol....my grandmother awlays says abee gezunt thats all the matters
Mich0621
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Posted by milana
Posted by Mich0621
Posted by milana
Posted by Mich0621
Posted by milana
How about everyone moves to california so hayley and I can host the next LIW GTG
Peg doesnt deserve this whoever this meanie is! Shes a wonderful person and shouldnt be singled out for being some sort of leader of cliques lol.
Only if we split time between your house and Hayley's...it will all depend on who makes the better dinner that night!
hmmm that sounds fair enough....how many of you like matzo ball soup, i bet i make better matzo balls than hayley? lol
Well, you better! We are good Jewish mamala shanas! (Milana, you better know some Yiddush)
I'll light the Shabbos candles too!
i need to get crackin on my yiddish...atleast i can still speak russian lol....my grandmother awlays says abee gezunt thats all the matters
Good girl! My grandma speaks Russian too, but mostly Yiddush. What I called you was a beautiful girl.
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Posted by Mich0621
With all these views on both threads, notice we have no admissions of guilt from the perpetrators?
Bring it! We can take it.
Can I just add
I want a tribal council so these *ahem* posters can defend themselves OR we can vote them off the island
and 2) The mind reels at the prospect of these little girls being MARRIED. Apparently there's an age requirement but not a maturity one. And if I've offended you, tough NOOGIES.
Mich0621
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Still waiting for a confession...not so brave now...eh?
Mich0621
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Posted by Colette
Posted by Mich0621
With all these views on both threads, notice we have no admissions of guilt from the perpetrators?
Bring it! We can take it.
Can I just add
I want a tribal council so these *ahem* posters can defend themselves OR we can vote them off the island
and 2) The mind reels at the prospect of these little girls being MARRIED. Apparently there's an age requirement but not a maturity one. And if I've offended you, tough NOOGIES.
As a lawyer, I will advise these perps they have a right to counsel. If they cannot afford one, tough. Live with it!
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Very well said!!!!!
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I read the post and I wanted to say to Peg/Peggy I don't want to mess up your name I hate it when people do it to me. I think that by posting this you just gave those people that were FMing you a glimmer of life. What do I mean? For a person to come onto this site and sit down and be worried about cliques and whose friends with who is childish and very idiotic. There are far more important things to worry about. People do HATE and they usually do so when jealous. So it is a safe bet to say that these particular females are jealous and saw you as the outlet to purge whatever HS feelings they have. With that said though, creating a post about these people not only gives these people a sense of validation because they made you upset enough that you made the post but they are now 'The Hot Topic' which in case made double digits in pages. In the end really do you give 2 $hits about what these people think about you or your friends? This site served it's purpose you had a beautiful wedding, made some great friends in the process, why let anything else anger you? Did they say anything to you or about you that was true? Did they injure you or anyone in your family? If not, then they do not deserve the attention they are getting!!! Everyone is shouting shame on them, better word is shame on us for giving them an audience. So I say this to anyone that enjoys, thrives on drama, the degredation of others, who enjoys trying to cause hurt!! Guess what Keep on Keepin On! Because you have just done your job! What is your Job, you might ask? You are a HATER!! So please keep HATING!! Be the professional HATER, Cause sweet heart green is not a pretty color but it looks good on you!!
Good Night!
Oh yes please believe that anyone who doesnt agree or feels like FMing me will cause me such grief that Im going to send and FM to Ron or the website! Your WRONG!! I am not one to be cyber bullied. Only ppl that scare me are God and the IRS and last time I check you're not GOD and I always pay my taxes! So any FM's will be DELETED
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