If one more person ask me.......

Original post by mikeysgirl

Jan 02, 2005 03:46 PM

When are you two going to have kids? I am going to explode.

I feel like saying when it is of your concern I'll let you know

amy0405 Posted: Jan 09, 2005 12:05 PM

Re: If one more person ask me.......

Posted by janwinterbridejoy

i usually tell me that ask over and over when you quit your job and agreed to babysit for free or so other sharp comment like that

A friend of mine has been tempted to say 'Well we tried this special sexual position last night....' so who ever is asking realizes how personal the question really is.

lorsin Posted: Jan 09, 2005 06:00 PM

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I find that at social events I order a drink to hold in my hand even if I'm not in the mood to have one, just so they know I'm not pregnant and don't ask.

Doesn't stop the 'when are you going to try?' questions, but it stops the speculation that I am already.

It's so annoying. Especially when you are trying and not quite there yet. I'm most afraid of when I first find out that I am and then can't hide the look on my face if someone asks - I don't want Joe Cubicle to know before I've told my family!!

When I do get pregnant I'm going to be a hermit for the first 3 months!!

Baldshrimp Posted: Jan 10, 2005 08:07 PM

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I'm not even married yet and get it all the time . I can imagine it being worse now that everyone is married. Both our grandparents want them within a year if possible.

Best Wishes to those trying and those who aren't but have been blessed with one, or two, or more.

Thomas

Catch22 Posted: Jan 11, 2005 09:54 AM

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Lol, we have been married over 2 years and have no plans to start a family inn the near future... his family used to say stuff but stopped... my usual retort is 'actually, we are shopping around for a dog' that usually shuts people up real quick. i don't think its anyone's business!