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If you've been in a bridal party...

Original post by woozshle

If you've been in a bridal party, were you always consulted about a shower date for the bride before it was booked?

CalJoe0124 Posted:

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Yes all the girls got together and picked a appropriate date and time for everyone in the bridal party.

jes81276 Posted:

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Yes, we (the BP) came up with a date together

babygirl0918 Posted:

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i think the bridal parties i was in came up with the date that worked best for everyone...

Goldi1021 Posted:

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I have three adults and two teenagers in my BP. The teens are my brother's daughters and are children of divorce. My brother sees them every other weekend and their mother does not make things easy for him. All I asked of the adults was to consult with my brother and his new wife to make sure a date they picked was not in conflict with his visitation. If they picked a weekend that they are supposed to be with their mother, guess what - no shower for them. I do not want them left out of anything. Consulting is important in my case.

Jax430 Posted:

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Yes, I was consulted for the one that I was in last year. I don't know if I'll be consulted for the one i'm currently in, though.

EvenEdan Posted:

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No, I have never been consulted on the date.

And when I was the MOH throwing the shower, I didn't consult the rest of the BP on the date either. I picked it far in advance and just made sure everyone knew about it. It would be impossible to coordinate if I had to worry about every Bridesmaid's schedule.
franksbride Posted:

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No, I do not recall being consulted...

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