right after you got married, did you feel like kinda jealous of new brides, like engaged people.
i really cant watch wedding shows or anything, i get so sad lol, i know im a looser but its like im having wedding withdrawl, i want to cry when i see a new bride and i cry when i see my wedding pics cuz im sad its over, i hope this goes away!
Just Cindy
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it goes away...dont worry
grkbarbie
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helll nooo!! i HATEDDDDDDDDD all the streessss
we need to go to dinner ASAP. get ur mind away from the wedding envy . blechh
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i totally do not envy brides planning their wedding now. im glad we are married. i am so happy we moved up our date-i couldnt imagine getting married 6-6-10 like scheduled but i really cant watch wedding shows anymore for diff reasons i guess
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I don't watch any of the wedding shows, not because I'm jealous just because I'm over it I guess. Now, ask me if I get jealous of pregnant ladies and that's a whole other story
I do think it's totally normal to feel sad after your wedding though. So much of our lives go into planning it and then in an instant it over.
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I felt sad and jealous..youre not alone! I LOVED planning our wedding and that exciting time...but you have new things to look forward to now. It will go away...promise
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right after the wedding i was so upset it was over. what made it worse was a week after our wedding i was a BM in my friends wedding so it felt like we were doing ours all over again, only all the attention wasnt on us lol all these songs from our wedding came on and it kept making us think of ours.
it goes away but comes back here and then
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im not going to lie..i get it from time to time..mostly w see a girls goodbye post or someof the beautiufl pics..i get that feeling like oh i wish my wedding was tommorrow..but it also might be cause im nuts
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It def goes away so dont worry! I think we all felt that way!! I just started watching our wedding video for the 1st time and its giving me happy tears all over again.... something for you to look forward to (assuming you got one hehe)
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i always wish i could do it again...i enjoyed that day sooo much! i would do anything to do it over again!
and yessssss i get jealous of girls but its more of an excitement jealous and i wanna help! haha
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Yeahhhhh it didn't go away for me!!! I am SO nostalgic and weepy coming up on a year!! All I can think of is 'last year I was receiving my rsvps, last year I was....'
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yes and no ...I was jealous of trying on new dresses, the flowers crap like that..other than that..I am so happy to be over..but I think sometimes it's hard because it's all fresh for the newbies..like wow...all this exciting stuff I can do!
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Posted by allegracristina
Yeahhhhh it didn't go away for me!!! I am SO nostalgic and weepy coming up on a year!! All I can think of is 'last year I was receiving my rsvps, last year I was....'
oh thank g o d you said that allegra!!! i thought it was just me!!!
i wish i could do it over again!!! i was the best day ever!!! i ki nda don't want my album or video yet, so i can still have something wedding rlated to look forward to!!
it was the best time of my life!!! and i totally get jealous and a little mad when brides complain about the planning!!! i am like what!!! it is soooo much fun!!!
i am actually helping my ex with his wedding a little bit.. i need to stay in the loop!!! i think i will always love weddings!!
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I despised wedding planning but it was only because the Allegria ****** every single ounce of joy out of planning that I should've/would've had...
I don't miss it for a solitary second!
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i felt that way for about a month, but it went away
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omg, thank you guys so much, i really thought i was the only one because i hear all these girls saying they miss it but noone ever says they are like envious/sad. ok you guys made me feel better,
it was the worst on our hm when we had to see those destination weddings and dh would be like oh lookk, i would be ike, yeahhh, maybe not, he would think i was kidding but no! lol
and yeah...i dont mean like jealous like i want their weddings to fail, lol...just want to do mine over and over again and have that day forever
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that's funny...i was fine for a while but for some reason this weekend i've been looking at all my pics and video...then going through friends wedding pictures..im wedding obsessed again all of a sudden....lol.
I wouldn't say I'm envious of other people getting engaged/married but I do wish so bad I could do it all over again!!
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for me it went away because i got into looking for houses, and thinking about babies! LOL
it goes from one obsession to another! lol
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lmao
i posted the other day that i wanted to get married again.
im super jealous!!!
butttttttttttttttt no way do i want to plan or pay for anything like this again.
i just want to play dress up and party
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Posted by allegracristina
Yeahhhhh it didn't go away for me!!! I am SO nostalgic and weepy coming up on a year!! All I can think of is 'last year I was receiving my rsvps, last year I was....'
Yea im the same way. My cousin is getting married this Aug and I just keep on thinking, 'Why is everyone asking THEM about their plans' Then I remember that my day is way over and it makes me sad
