right after you got married, did you feel like kinda jealous of new brides, like engaged people.
i really cant watch wedding shows or anything, i get so sad lol, i know im a looser but its like im having wedding withdrawl, i want to cry when i see a new bride and i cry when i see my wedding pics cuz im sad its over, i hope this goes away!
MirabellaNYC
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I know it's normal to get jealous, but truly after our wedding was done, I thought I would feel that way, but I didn't.
I did however, suddenly stop going on all those wedding blogs that I fawned over our entire engagement. I wanted (and still want) nothing to do with them. Isn't that weird?
But I still like looking at pics of wedding dresses and watching Say Yes to the Dress.
You will feel better I promise!
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i always wish i could do it again...i enjoyed that day sooo much! i would do anything to do it over again!
and yessssss i get jealous of girls but its more of an excitement jealous and i wanna help! haha
i feel exactly the same way!
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I was a little depressed after the wedding. I actually enjoyed every minute of wedding planning, so I kind of missed having something to do. But now that I am 6 months out...I am just happy I can enjoy married life and have my weekends free from commitments. But I totally understand where you are coming from...I promise it'll fade!
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i was like that for a week - now i dont even think of it
Lovebug2016
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Not really, but thats because I had other things to keep my mind going. I love scrapbooking so once the weddings nonsense was over I still had scrapbooking to work on. I had a great time planning and being creative...but towards the end it began to become more of a job than anything else.
let them plan their as$es off- i sit back, relax and swiffer my kitchen floors like crazy
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Although I enjoyed the planning & seeing my dreams come to life, I am so happy its all over. We had a wonderful wedding & I am happy to have all the memories. At the end DH & I argued a lot & I hated that. I am happy to have our happy life back.
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I definitely had the post-wedding blues! I think it's normal.
I miss being 'the bride'.
However, I'm also burnt out over wedding stuff. I still can't bring myself to deal with doing our albums or video...I'm sure our photographer thinks we dropped of the face of the earth!
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Although I enjoyed the planning & seeing my dreams come to life, I am so happy its all over. We had a wonderful wedding & I am happy to have all the memories. At the end DH & I argued a lot & I hated that. I am happy to have our happy life back.
ITA...I had a wonderful wedding, even though a few things beyond my control happened that made me a little sad in hindsight (weather, makeup throwing off my schedule and causing some repercussions with photography, etc.), but I am so glad it's over. DH and I fought terribly during our entire engagement, to the point where we almost called it off, actually in the parking lot of the RH 4 days before the wedding bringing our final payment But it was just the stress, and the pressure of having to go go go...we're so much happier now. So I kinda feel sad and jealous when I see other new brides posting their beautiful pics in the sun, mainly because it makes me sad that mine aren't like that, but overall I'm glad it's behind me.
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Yeah it was depressing for a while but it goes away. I am excited for people now and to go to weddings as an old married couple.
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eh. i realized how much stress (that i didn't even know existed!) was lifted off my shoulders after the wedding. i love hearing about others' weddings though :).
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iT DOES FADE A BIT BUT i HEAR YOU loud and clear!
TessMike621
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I'm glad I'm not the only one!!! A couple of days after, even on my beautiul Hawaii honeymoon, I was SOOO upset!! It gets better everyday!! I still miss my wedding so much and I wish that I could just go back to that day!! it's all good though, there's so much to look foward to, this is only the beginning!!
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I was def a lil depressed after the wedding was over, I really enjoyed planning it. It did go away for the most part but there are def times when other girls (at work) talk about planning thier wedding and I wish I could do it all over again. But for the most part now Im jealous of girls who are getting pregnant..
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For like a week.
Now all those wedding shows, and most posts about weddings bore me. I'll help out when I can... but it just doesn't hold the same interest now that I'm done.
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I am still having those issues .... its been getting better, but I doubt I'll ever watch wedding programs .
I MISS MY WEDDING TOO!!
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nope not at all... I felt their pain lolol
I didnt want the big production that we had... we just wanted a few pple on the beach....
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I do not miss the planning AT ALL but I do look at stuff I coulda of done different and wished I did but my day was really great! When I got my video this past weekend, I saw just HOW great!
I am still stressed picking out pics for my album and getting pics from guests to print!
I am now stressed on finding a place and working so I have other stresses to make me not be nastalgic lol
I also have been freed to cut my hair and highlight it. I can now also eat candy and cake without feeling guilty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I do miss my honeymoon though
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I've been thinking about this a lot. The whole missing the wedding didn't really start until January. Then I really started remembering what I was doing last year and it began to get sad for me. I didn't like, immediately miss my wedding. I was pretty content at first, even though I was sick on my wedding night and half my entire honeymoon. I was pretty positive until The Year of Shitt began, then I started to lose steam on the positivity I'm hoping that after our anniversary we will toast to the start of a new, happy, amazing year.
ETA: The Year of Shitt began 10 days after the honeymoon when DH was laid off...Yeah that pretty much started the chain.
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Yeahhhhh it didn't go away for me!!! I am SO nostalgic and weepy coming up on a year!! All I can think of is 'last year I was receiving my rsvps, last year I was....'
oh thank g o d you said that allegra!!! i thought it was just me!!!
i wish i could do it over again!!! i was the best day ever!!! i ki nda don't want my album or video yet, so i can still have something wedding rlated to look forward to!!
it was the best time of my life!!! and i totally get jealous and a little mad when brides complain about the planning!!! i am like what!!! it is soooo much fun!!!
ITA with both of these!!!!!
I'm still totally obsessed with my wedding. I JUST posted video links on FB and my default pic is still a wedding pic.....I don't care what anyone says I LOOOVED my wedding and I'll keep talking about it.
