I'm getting really tired...
...of the constant battle with my MIL! I'm sitting here crying because honestly what can I do without upsetting my MIL or DH?!?!?
As some of you may remember my FIL was diagnosed with cancer (Prostate to be exact). He went for an MRI today and we should get the results within 24 hours to find out if it spread or if it is containted. Well, while MIL was waiting for FIL to finish to his MRI she was telling me how scared and worried she was because it was taking so long. She was talking to me about it because she didn't want to worry his children. I don't know why she thinks I'm not worried at all!
Then I talk to my dad and I'm all upset and he tells me they are going about it all wrong. He had the biopsy, then the MRI but doesn't have a surgen and doing all their research off the internet about it all instead of talking to doctors. This makes me more upset. My family is HUGE into Sloan as my dad is convinced it saved my mom's life but when I spoke to MIL she told me she found a doctor on the internet that seems to be amazing at this certain kind of procedure. FOUND HIM ON THE INTERNET? And of course her kids know nothing because she doesn't want to trouble them or worry them.
Now, she doesn't speak to her mother or father FIL's parents are both deceased), doesn't have many friends, and her sister is the POS that wrote about me being 'The Jew' so she stopped talking to her. She doesn't have anyone to talk to. Her husband is complete denial, her kids are in the dark so they aren't upset, what am I supposed to do? Tell her I can't handle this stress and pressure and upset her even more (she has other family things going on and I'm surprised she hasn't had a stroke - knock on wood - or anything yet)? I told DH we need to talk about this but he told me he doesn't want to talk about anything or think about it until the MRI results come back. I don't want to upset him even more. SIL I tried to talk to but she's on the same page as DH.
If I didn't have you girls I think I would lose my freaking mind!![]()
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Ok vent over! Now lets just hope the results come in good and I don't have to keep that from DH again so his daddy can tell him when I'm not there![]()
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I don't care what they say, I'm telling DH no matter what the results are!
As some of you may remember my FIL was diagnosed with cancer (Prostate to be exact). He went for an MRI today and we should get the results within 24 hours to find out if it spread or if it is containted. Well, while MIL was waiting for FIL to finish to his MRI she was telling me how scared and worried she was because it was taking so long. She was talking to me about it because she didn't want to worry his children. I don't know why she thinks I'm not worried at all!
Then I talk to my dad and I'm all upset and he tells me they are going about it all wrong. He had the biopsy, then the MRI but doesn't have a surgen and doing all their research off the internet about it all instead of talking to doctors. This makes me more upset. My family is HUGE into Sloan as my dad is convinced it saved my mom's life but when I spoke to MIL she told me she found a doctor on the internet that seems to be amazing at this certain kind of procedure. FOUND HIM ON THE INTERNET? And of course her kids know nothing because she doesn't want to trouble them or worry them.
Now, she doesn't speak to her mother or father FIL's parents are both deceased), doesn't have many friends, and her sister is the POS that wrote about me being 'The Jew' so she stopped talking to her. She doesn't have anyone to talk to. Her husband is complete denial, her kids are in the dark so they aren't upset, what am I supposed to do? Tell her I can't handle this stress and pressure and upset her even more (she has other family things going on and I'm surprised she hasn't had a stroke - knock on wood - or anything yet)? I told DH we need to talk about this but he told me he doesn't want to talk about anything or think about it until the MRI results come back. I don't want to upset him even more. SIL I tried to talk to but she's on the same page as DH.
If I didn't have you girls I think I would lose my freaking mind!
Ok vent over! Now lets just hope the results come in good and I don't have to keep that from DH again so his daddy can tell him when I'm not there
