I'm trying not be upset but I am

Sorry you're upset about this!

It's different once you're married. You shouldn't feel nervous or uncomfortable or jealous when it comes to your DH, so try to put some comfort in that.

Boys will definitely be boys (as much as girls will sometimes be girls) and they say things to be heard. Period. It's not you -- it's them. If you can, try not to dwell on it.

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Posted by kmiller

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Posted by gina409

first off

i dont know dh or his frind so take this with a grain of alt..and im am totally on ur side cause i am the most over sensitive person in the word..i wear my heart on my sleeve and take everything personally

now..snce u said this guy was his only friendim going to say he was just saying this stuff to amuse this guy..kwim?like if he didnt this guy would rag on him which he prob would cause guys can do that

is this guy married?cause if not he would def rag on him and thats why dh prob said it

either way..im sorry ur sad..i would be sad too..but u have to remember..he is ur hubby and he loes u more than anything and if u trust him tats all that matters...sometimes guys just think with the wrong head

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This guy is married. And if his wfe heard what he says about her she would be soooo upset.

For instance..when we were leaving the party we attended for him I asked him to please say goodnight to his wife for me. His response was 'F%$k her.'.
He said he was kidding around. I think he is a piece of trash.

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then this guy is simply a flat out douche bag...and i bet dh is just making him feel better by going along with what he says

and u know what else..i bet this guy says and does stuff like this cause he is jealous of what u and dh have...

the next time u and them r out i would say in front of them all..to his wife..oh look at that guy..bet u wouldnt mind banging him...then start laughing..see how he likes it

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Posted by gina409

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Posted by kmiller

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Posted by gina409

first off

i dont know dh or his frind so take this with a grain of alt..and im am totally on ur side cause i am the most over sensitive person in the word..i wear my heart on my sleeve and take everything personally

now..snce u said this guy was his only friendim going to say he was just saying this stuff to amuse this guy..kwim?like if he didnt this guy would rag on him which he prob would cause guys can do that

is this guy married?cause if not he would def rag on him and thats why dh prob said it

either way..im sorry ur sad..i would be sad too..but u have to remember..he is ur hubby and he loes u more than anything and if u trust him tats all that matters...sometimes guys just think with the wrong head

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This guy is married. And if his wfe heard what he says about her she would be soooo upset.

For instance..when we were leaving the party we attended for him I asked him to please say goodnight to his wife for me. His response was 'F%$k her.'.
He said he was kidding around. I think he is a piece of trash.

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then this guy is simply a flat out douche bag...and i bet dh is just making him feel better by going along with what he says

and u know what else..i bet this guy says and does stuff like this cause he is jealous of what u and dh have...

the next time u and them r out i would say in front of them all..to his wife..oh look at that guy..bet u wouldnt mind banging him...then start laughing..see how he likes it

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I think both this guy and DH would die.

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Posted by kmiller

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Posted by gina409

first off

i dont know dh or his frind so take this with a grain of alt..and im am totally on ur side cause i am the most over sensitive person in the word..i wear my heart on my sleeve and take everything personally

now..snce u said this guy was his only friendim going to say he was just saying this stuff to amuse this guy..kwim?like if he didnt this guy would rag on him which he prob would cause guys can do that

is this guy married?cause if not he would def rag on him and thats why dh prob said it

either way..im sorry ur sad..i would be sad too..but u have to remember..he is ur hubby and he loes u more than anything and if u trust him tats all that matters...sometimes guys just think with the wrong head

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This guy is married. And if his wfe heard what he says about her she would be soooo upset.

For instance..when we were leaving the party we attended for him I asked him to please say goodnight to his wife for me. His response was 'F%$k her.'.
He said he was kidding around. I think he is a piece of trash.

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HE TOTALLY IS TRASH! He obviously is not a person DH should be hanging around with. If your husband is the more following type to have more friends this could end up bad. I dont want to alarm you but i dont think this 'friend' is a friend. He just wants someone to be an as s with. Ya know???

Thankfully my DH & all of his friends are really great guys that love their wives. You hubby can hang with mine & his friends cause your DH needs NICE friends. lol

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Posted by kmiller

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Posted by gina409

first off

i dont know dh or his frind so take this with a grain of alt..and im am totally on ur side cause i am the most over sensitive person in the word..i wear my heart on my sleeve and take everything personally

now..snce u said this guy was his only friendim going to say he was just saying this stuff to amuse this guy..kwim?like if he didnt this guy would rag on him which he prob would cause guys can do that

is this guy married?cause if not he would def rag on him and thats why dh prob said it

either way..im sorry ur sad..i would be sad too..but u have to remember..he is ur hubby and he loes u more than anything and if u trust him tats all that matters...sometimes guys just think with the wrong head

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This guy is married. And if his wfe heard what he says about her she would be soooo upset.

For instance..when we were leaving the party we attended for him I asked him to please say goodnight to his wife for me. His response was 'F%$k her.'.
He said he was kidding around. I think he is a piece of trash.

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OMGGGGGGGGGGGG
HES ONE OF THEM!?!??!?!?!

My husband dropped his friends because of this. He said he and I were happy and they were MISERABLE and constantly bickered about their wives and couldnt stand it....

I HATE men like that. I apoligizse for him- becuase iKnow their kind. There are also women that I work with like that. Degrade their husbands beyond. UGH... I Hate that..

Sorry hun