Inexcusable Behavior

lorimari Posted: Jan 26, 2004 02:29 PM

Inexcusable Behavior

I've absolutely had it today. I have this Executive Director who I can't stand anymore. I am so sick of his comments that I am ready to walk out.

I've been at my desk quietly working and ignoring him b/c I have nothing to say to him. He then turns to me and says 'Oh, someone took too much vitamin b today'. So I didn't say anything and he's like, man your poor husband - such a fool. So I turn around and I'm like excuse me - he says anyone who gets married a second time is a fool and I can't feel bad for them.

Is he freakin' kidding me - yeah, my husband is on his second marriage and its no business of yours to comment on it and he did DAMN good this time around - better than YOU could ever do. I feel so bad for this mans wife.

I am so aggravated - I'm so done with this job. I'm tired of him and so are the rest of the women on staff. Don't tell me to go to HR b/c in our company its just a giant waste of time.

Thanks for letting me vent - I'm just seething mad right now. Looks like his schedule is going to get really screwed up and since he doesn't know how to use a computer I can blame him. Never mess with your assistant - you'll never know what hit you.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

NovemberSue Posted: Jan 26, 2004 02:36 PM

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How rude! This guy seems like a real idiot.

MarcellaBella Posted: Jan 26, 2004 02:37 PM

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put some laxatives in his coffee..

kmcwed Posted: Jan 26, 2004 02:48 PM

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Teri Posted: Jan 26, 2004 02:53 PM

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Posted by MarcellaBella

put some laxatives in his coffee..

Good idea! If HR won't help you, you're left to fend for yourself

What an @$$.

shelzyp Posted: Jan 26, 2004 02:53 PM

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I can't believe people.

What does having to much Vitamin B mean??

shamma Posted: Jan 26, 2004 03:04 PM

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yall should document everything

lorimari Posted: Jan 26, 2004 03:16 PM

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Vitamin B = biatch

Marcella - LOVE IT!!!! I have heard Visine works really well LOL!!!!

swags1016 Posted: Jan 26, 2004 03:48 PM

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Lori, I agree with Shamma document everything and if you can get a portable tape recorder and keep it in your desk!

What an SOB!! Sorry sweetie you don't deserve that crap!

curly2003 Posted: Jan 26, 2004 04:22 PM

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Posted by swags1016

Lori, I agree with Shamma document everything and if you can get a portable tape recorder and keep it in your desk!

What an SOB!! Sorry sweetie you don't deserve that crap!

Ditto to above.

You deserve better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

pschica Posted: Jan 26, 2004 08:22 PM

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you poor thing - well, i htink he did better this time aroudn too! hon! hang inthere and god luck....that guys seems like a real jerk!!

hope everything else is going well for you though!! once i move out ofificially by you - we'll have to get together one day!!

MrsTC Posted: Jan 26, 2004 09:02 PM

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sorry to hear that

send out your resume...

when I left my old job , my friend and I hated our boss so much we sent her a Playboy subscription to the office!! hehehehehehe

jennbaby Posted: Jan 26, 2004 09:49 PM

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what nerve!!!!! tell him to go F&^% himself!

ThongLori Posted: Jan 26, 2004 10:34 PM

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Lori-- that is verbal harrassment. I would report him to HR... seriously!

ETA -- just read you can't go to HR... well then I am with Marcella! LAXATIVES ALL THE WAY LOL!! Did you ever see the movie '9 to 5' .. Lily Tomlin puts rat poison in the boss' coffeE!

lorimari Posted: Jan 26, 2004 10:54 PM

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THat is ok - I work with a bunch of jerks.

My VP said to me today that he can't understand why I can't deliver the mail earlier - I was like yours is on your desk and we get 3 deliveries a day arsewipe.

Apparently I am now the US Postal Service.

I sent my resume to a head hunter and posted my resume on Monster - I'm done with this place.

Thank you girls for being there and a big shout out to my Thonglori......can't you just come into the office and mess them all up

ThongLori Posted: Jan 26, 2004 11:31 PM

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Lori, i'm puttin on my coat... got my shoes on... oiling up the boxing gloves... i'm ready!!!

Maybe if your boss stopped puffin his crackpipe he'd figure out how to treat people with respect.

cooky11111 Posted: Jan 27, 2004 09:47 AM

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Posted by curly2003

Posted by swags1016

Lori, I agree with Shamma document everything and if you can get a portable tape recorder and keep it in your desk!

What an SOB!! Sorry sweetie you don't deserve that crap!

Ditto to above.

You deserve better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes you can bring it to the labor board if HR won't do anything and I would tell HR that!!!!

yabbobay Posted: Jan 27, 2004 10:29 AM

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ugh...looks like someone took too much vitamin A!!!!

a similar thing happened to my mom...she works in a school and a couple was divorcing...the father told the principal that she was incompetent...now the mother has custody and the father came to pick the kid up...my mother refused to release the student to the father... it comes back to bite you in the ass!!!!

I hope everythig works out...