The last two months have been a very hard time for Dh, myself and ourchildren...A close friend of ours lost her husband ( he passed in his sleep at 32) my aunt passed away my brother was diagnossed with cancer etc....emotionally we have all been through the ringer and my kids (7&9) have been feeling it as well...it really is a time where they need mommy and all that . My anxiety has been through the roof so can someone please explain to me why people would knowingly cause more stress and drama for us and then have the nerve to talk alot of craap about how I let them down etc becuase I needed to get away from the stress they were causing??? ok vent over...Just trying to understand people
DeannaNDave07
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i am so sorry for everything you are going through.. people just need to understand the pain that you and DH are in! im sure you are a wonderful mommy!! hang in there
kellybean
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Thank you so much. We really try our hardest not to make our problems other peoples so to speak but if you are a close friend and are aware of the issues why in the world would you cause more problems for us then get mad when its simply stated I cant do this anymore?
SusiBtoM
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Be selfish for a little while. Put all the focus on yourself and your family.
Don't put any care on what others say about you.
Take care of yourself so that this stress won't affect you in a negative way.
PegaLega
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Yea I agree, be selfish for a little bit, you all have alot going on and dont need other people making you feel guilty for what is happening
iwannabmrsD
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awww.. hope everything gets better for you and your family.. this is the time your kids and hubby need you most.. focus on your family as you have been doing.. the real friends will still be there at the end of the tunnel..
hoping it gets better faster..
JennNicole
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unfortunately your not alone.. ... sorry your going through all of this. I don't wish this kind of thing on anyone. People in general are hard to 'Figure out'.
anyway this is for you
kellybean
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Thank you so much for all your kind words ladies...I wish people could get over the its all about me thing....we havent asked for anything or for any help etc....it just seems like there is one friend who went out of her way to make it a much more stressful time and though it pains me to lose the friendship...I just dont need the HS garbage anymore
carolinebr
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Posted by SusiBtoM
Be selfish for a little while. Put all the focus on yourself and your family.
Don't put any care on what others say about you.
Take care of yourself so that this stress won't affect you in a negative way.
I agree 100%
diva7531
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So sorry Kelly, gotta just shut those people out, they are not true friends.
Butterfly123
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Because people are just selfish. The older I get the more I see it.
vmystique33
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Posted by SusiBtoM
Be selfish for a little while. Put all the focus on yourself and your family.
Don't put any care on what others say about you.
Take care of yourself so that this stress won't affect you in a negative way.
I agree also !! and Im very sorry you guys are going through this
