MIL trouble
Sort of long.
I know not everyone gets alone with the inlaws but I think I have real reason not to. A couple of times I have posted about my MIL on brides helping brides when we were planning our wedding. She gave me a hard time with my junior bridesmaids dress (her daughter and FH sister), she told us she wouldn't show to our wedding (she did last minute). At our wedding she told people that I forced DH to marry me. A family friend of Dh calleed yesterday and she started to tell me how MIL bashes me. She told the family friend that I was after DH for his money, which is funny since he has nothing, we are both still in school, and have so many loans. Said I complained about e-ring not being big enough, which I've never done. What hurts the most is she said she hopes DH doesn't knock me up because all I will do is demand more of DH than I already do. I am sort of done hearing all this. She knows I hate confrontation and I've never confronted her. DH says to ignore her because she 'isn't right', and she is just a 'b*tch'. But, I think I am at the end of my rope and I want to say something to her. He has told her a few times to stop saying stuff. She always denies it. He doesn't have a good relationship with her
Would you say something, and do you think I should bring up the things that I've heard through the grapevine?
I feel like I can't tell anyone because DH is so fed up with her, and my family hates her because of the way she acted. Its so frustrating.
I know not everyone gets alone with the inlaws but I think I have real reason not to. A couple of times I have posted about my MIL on brides helping brides when we were planning our wedding. She gave me a hard time with my junior bridesmaids dress (her daughter and FH sister), she told us she wouldn't show to our wedding (she did last minute). At our wedding she told people that I forced DH to marry me. A family friend of Dh calleed yesterday and she started to tell me how MIL bashes me. She told the family friend that I was after DH for his money, which is funny since he has nothing, we are both still in school, and have so many loans. Said I complained about e-ring not being big enough, which I've never done. What hurts the most is she said she hopes DH doesn't knock me up because all I will do is demand more of DH than I already do. I am sort of done hearing all this. She knows I hate confrontation and I've never confronted her. DH says to ignore her because she 'isn't right', and she is just a 'b*tch'. But, I think I am at the end of my rope and I want to say something to her. He has told her a few times to stop saying stuff. She always denies it. He doesn't have a good relationship with her
Would you say something, and do you think I should bring up the things that I've heard through the grapevine?
I feel like I can't tell anyone because DH is so fed up with her, and my family hates her because of the way she acted. Its so frustrating.
