My sister s u ckssssssssss - small update
So this weekend was Ella's first birthday party. (Pictures in other post below)
As some of you may recall, my sister was a total a$$hole at my wedding & I have only spoken to her once since. She made a scene, was TOTALLY on drugs and acted like a drama queen, like always. She tried to upstage me on my wedding day. B!tch.
Ok so she apparently COMPLAINED to BOTH my parents that she wasn't invited to Ella's birthday party. . Ok but um #1 - last thing I invited you to... you kind of s ucked at. #2 - you have not ONCE called to ask how Ella is, you have never asked for a picture, you have never asked to visit, you have never called tyo apologize, you did not send a Christmas card or gift for her, you have not even asked what she looks like. SO WHY would I invite you when you have shown ZERO interest in my child. But ME being the a$$hole said 'fine - tell her she's invited.' What does she do? She throws a fit, according to my mother & says 'I CAN'T GO TO RHODE ISLAND, I have to work. I'm a single mother! We're not all married & rich!' Fine, whatever, you suck and I'm not rich. We have jobs & we don't blow our money on drugs. You just wanted drama & attention as usual.
However, her 2 kids, ages 5 & 10, were invited & they came with my dad from LI for the day.
Ok, for starters, they are the devil's spawn. the 5 year old RIPPED my house apart & made me a wreck. They made my baby SCREAM from the second they walked in the door. They shout & never listen. I tried to 'enjoy them' since they are my niece & nephew, but quite honestly, they are just not enjoyable. The 10 year old got into a fight with DH's cousin's kid & STORMED out of the party the exact way his mother would, making a scene & screaming 'SCREW THIS' and ran outside into the pouring rain. My dad went after him & so did DH. It was embarrassing. the 5 year old stuck her greasy little fingers into my $75 birthday cake & demanded to blow out the candles. She also stuck her hands in the big bowl of jello. Lovely.
Ok fine... not all kids are perfect, I know and i can handle that, BUT.... MY SISTER DID NOT SEND A BIRTHDAY GIFT FOR ELLA. Do you honestly think they go to their FRIEND'S parties empty handed. I doubt it.
Now, we don't NEED the gifts, but its just RUDE. She claimed when I spoke to her the day after Christmas (1st and only time since the wedding) that she had Christmas gifts for me, DH & Ella & our wedding present. Instead she sent 2 unruly kids & 1 scrawny stuffed animal wearing a santa hat & no birthday gift or even card. Its embarrassing in front of DH to have such an a$$hole for a sister.
UPDATE
ETA - Just spoke to my dad & asked innocently “was the Elmo outfit from you guys or from niece & nephew?” He said “no, that was from us. Your sister is going to mail you a gift.” I then said “was the Christmas bear from her?” He said no, that was from him too. I was giving her credit for the bear & it was actually from my dad. So she didn't even send the bear. She sent nothing. No Christmas gift for her ONLY niece and no birthday gift.
As some of you may recall, my sister was a total a$$hole at my wedding & I have only spoken to her once since. She made a scene, was TOTALLY on drugs and acted like a drama queen, like always. She tried to upstage me on my wedding day. B!tch.
Ok so she apparently COMPLAINED to BOTH my parents that she wasn't invited to Ella's birthday party. . Ok but um #1 - last thing I invited you to... you kind of s ucked at. #2 - you have not ONCE called to ask how Ella is, you have never asked for a picture, you have never asked to visit, you have never called tyo apologize, you did not send a Christmas card or gift for her, you have not even asked what she looks like. SO WHY would I invite you when you have shown ZERO interest in my child. But ME being the a$$hole said 'fine - tell her she's invited.' What does she do? She throws a fit, according to my mother & says 'I CAN'T GO TO RHODE ISLAND, I have to work. I'm a single mother! We're not all married & rich!' Fine, whatever, you suck and I'm not rich. We have jobs & we don't blow our money on drugs. You just wanted drama & attention as usual.
However, her 2 kids, ages 5 & 10, were invited & they came with my dad from LI for the day.
Ok, for starters, they are the devil's spawn. the 5 year old RIPPED my house apart & made me a wreck. They made my baby SCREAM from the second they walked in the door. They shout & never listen. I tried to 'enjoy them' since they are my niece & nephew, but quite honestly, they are just not enjoyable. The 10 year old got into a fight with DH's cousin's kid & STORMED out of the party the exact way his mother would, making a scene & screaming 'SCREW THIS' and ran outside into the pouring rain. My dad went after him & so did DH. It was embarrassing. the 5 year old stuck her greasy little fingers into my $75 birthday cake & demanded to blow out the candles. She also stuck her hands in the big bowl of jello. Lovely.
Ok fine... not all kids are perfect, I know and i can handle that, BUT.... MY SISTER DID NOT SEND A BIRTHDAY GIFT FOR ELLA. Do you honestly think they go to their FRIEND'S parties empty handed. I doubt it.
Now, we don't NEED the gifts, but its just RUDE. She claimed when I spoke to her the day after Christmas (1st and only time since the wedding) that she had Christmas gifts for me, DH & Ella & our wedding present. Instead she sent 2 unruly kids & 1 scrawny stuffed animal wearing a santa hat & no birthday gift or even card. Its embarrassing in front of DH to have such an a$$hole for a sister.
UPDATE
ETA - Just spoke to my dad & asked innocently “was the Elmo outfit from you guys or from niece & nephew?” He said “no, that was from us. Your sister is going to mail you a gift.” I then said “was the Christmas bear from her?” He said no, that was from him too. I was giving her credit for the bear & it was actually from my dad. So she didn't even send the bear. She sent nothing. No Christmas gift for her ONLY niece and no birthday gift.
