Need a little advice

Original post by kellybean

May 14, 2008 09:34 AM

I dont have a great relationship with my brother or his wife. They were both in my wedding as well as their daughters. I havent really heard from them much since the wedding...not returning calls etc... I thought it was Due to my brother being sick which I totally understood. Well I come to find out its because one of my bridesmaids was repeating alot of stuff I had sad about them and a few choice names I have for sis in law and they not only overheard her but so did their children. I understand its things I said. I didnt excpect them to be repeated at my wedding with young children near..Im not really sure how to approach this...I do know the bridesmaid has a talking shiit problem ....

Aug07OFCbride Posted: May 14, 2008 12:05 PM

Re: Need a little advice

i think you did the best thing by going straight to your brother about it. focus on the family part.

as for the BM, was she just repeating bc she thought it was funny and didn't realize they were around or was she talking crap and knew they were right there? theres a big diff b/n the two to me and i would only approach her on it if it was the latter situation. otherwise, it doesnt seem worth it to even go there. your fam is the most impt part.