So I've always had short hair but I've been growing it out since my friends wedding last yr and then kept growing it for my recent wedding...we'll i'm sick of all this damn hair and I want to do the chop but DH keeps asking me not to...HELP!!!
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i think i might do something like this....and i think i might just make an appointment for tomorrow after work and just DO IT
Adorable! Do you have naturally curly hair?
I certainly do...not tight curls but pretty curly!
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should i just go today, or should I wait for tomorrow since it's not supposed to rain?
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i think i might do something like this....and i think i might just make an appointment for tomorrow after work and just DO IT
I love this style!!!!!!!!! definately go for it!
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I'm gonna do it....I made the appointment for tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I say do what you want. Its you who has to deal with your hair everyday not your DH. Is he gonna do your hair when you are tired of doing it lol. My Dh wanted me to cut my hair bc it was looking like a hot mess but i would've done it regardless if he wanted me to or not. And I agree with Jess, people just THINK they know what they like on you but once they see it they will love it. When DH told me he was shaving his head(this was over a year ago) my first reaction was oh no, but i kept my mouth shut since it was what he really wanted but inside i thought it was going to be a disaster lol. I ended up loving it after he did it.
Ive chopped my hair off quite a few times and then I also like to go from one hair color to another at times when I get bored. MOST of the time I dont tell others. I'll bring it up that i might be thinking about it but when I decide to do it, many times I just go without discussing it bc then you hear too many opinions. Then I just surprise people when they see me. Sometimes its better this way.
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Everytime I go to get my tips trimmed I get like 5 inches taken off IMO and in DH's opinion a women look gorgeous with long hair. It your going to cut it and it doesn't hurt you to cut it then go ahead, but if your DH is asking you not to is because he loves your hair long, you may want to consider chopping it off after you make a year.
I think if a woman is gorgeous she can look good with short or long. Dh says when a girl has short hair that is when you can tell how pretty she really is. Long hair can sometimes make the girl look gorgeous and give that sexy look but the true test is if she can have short hair and still look just as good and go by just on your face, and not look sexy just bc of long hair, which i'll agree with bc ive seen some girls who have long gorgeous hair and they looked pretty and remember some cutting it and it was like eh she is not as pretty anymore. But then it also depends on hair, I have very thin hair and when it gets long it gets lifeless and very limpy looking. So i dont get that long sexy hair ever lol unless its fake
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Do it ! my DH begged me not to because he , like most men like lots of hair, but as soon as I came back from the salon he admitted he loved it . My hair has already grown 1- 2 inches ( i cut it in october) and I got rid of all the split ends. You don't have to go super short, but I would cut some inches off
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when i met DH i had chin length hair and he says he likes me better with the long hair... i know that it's up to me no matter what...but i like to take his opinion into consideration...especially when he has one...lol...but as much as i'm sick of my long locks, it's still gonna be hard to chop!
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when i met DH i had chin length hair and he says he likes me better with the long hair... i know that it's up to me no matter what...but i like to take his opinion into consideration...especially when he has one...lol...but as much as i'm sick of my long locks, it's still gonna be hard to chop!
hey it was good enough for him when he first met you and obviously he did like it in a way otherwise he wouldnt have dated you. I do understand what you are saying and it is true. For me it was easy since DH wanted me to do it, when I first said i was gonna do it he was all for it. It is hard though at first i will admit. But thats also bc YEARS AGO i had a real bad short cut, the lady did such a terrible job and right away i couldnt wait until it grew out. Now though i LOVE it and i continue to go and cut it short and keep it that length. It grew a bit now and i want to go back soon and cut it even shorter. But it just comes down to how you really feel about it.
Is he THAT against it? does he just say he prefers long hair and thats it, or is he saying NO i dont like the short hair?
I had done red hair last year and then 3 weeks before the wedding i went back to blonde. DH's reaction was like NO i like the red. I took his opinion into consideration but then he started annoying me when he was talking about the pro's of the red and con's of the blonde on me bc all i thought was 'HELLO you met me as a blonde, ive been a blonde most of our relationship, so are you telling me that most of our relationship you had a problem with my blonde hair' lol, i actually got real annoyed with him about this and told him its better to stop talking about it and bc of the reasons i just said, i didnt take his opinion into consideration. In other situations I do, but not in a situation where i was blonde MOST of our relationship
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i think i might do something like this....and i think i might just make an appointment for tomorrow after work and just DO IT
This is the hair cut I got!!! I went 2 weeks ago and am still trying to get used to it...this was me b4