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carolinebr Posted:

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When she got married, my MOH’s sister-in law’s kids were in the wedding. I remember Michael was 11 years old and he was a Jr. Groomsman. He was such a cute kid.

He and his little brother & sister were always over My MOH when I lived with them. I remember when MOH’s 1st child was born, how much Michael LOVED that little baby. Michael is like another one of MOH & her DH’s kids. They bring him on vacations, he slept over all the time, etc.

I remember when my MOH told me Michael was in high school & I couldn’t believe he was growing up so fast.

I remember when my MOH told me Tracy (MOH’s SIL) was “having trouble” with him and I was shocked b/c he was such a good kid.

I remember when Michael moved in with my MOH & her DH b/c Tracy couldn’t handle him anymore. I remember my MOH telling me he stole money from her pocketbook for drugs. He was 16 or 17.

I remember Mike (MOH DH) making some calls to get the kid into the Army when he graduated high school. I remember that didn’t work out because he got arrested.

I remember last summer when MOH told me the kid was in a “gang”. Gang? No way. This is a normal, white bread, Gap wearing, Long Island kid. Not a gangster.

Two weeks ago, he got arrested again, this time for having brass knuckles. MOH’s DH had to drive out to Selden from Seaford at 4am to bail him out on the same night that my MOH had their 4th baby.

Last Tuesday, my MOH said to me “I just don’t think Michael is strong enough or smart enough to get on the right track. I think one day we are going to get a call that he’s dead.” I thought it was so harsh of her to say that.

Yesterday, my MOH called me to tell me the kid OD’d. He was 18. Her DH is devastated. He feels like he lost his son.

So f*cked up. I feel so badly for everyone.
kBr Posted:

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wow that is horrible, i am sooo sorry to hear this caroline
kellybean Posted:

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oh my god I am so sorry ! I will say pprayers for all of you. If there is anything I can do .
PattyK Posted:

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Keeping your MOH & her family in my thoughts and prayers
carolinebr Posted:

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Posted by kellybean

oh my god I am so sorry ! I will say pprayers for all of you. If there is anything I can do .




Thank you. I'm fine - its my MOH & her DH that I am worried about. They are just beyond devastated. She can barely speak. Its heartbreaking.

kellybean Posted:

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Posted by carolinebr


Posted by kellybean

oh my god I am so sorry ! I will say pprayers for all of you. If there is anything I can do .




Thank you. I'm fine - its my MOH & her DH that I am worried about. They are just beyond devastated. She can barely speak. Its heartbreaking.




anything I can do please let me know!!!
Renee615 Posted:

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That is so horrible! Kids don't realize how they can screw up or end their lives. So sad
lilqtpie2181 Posted:

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OMG...
SylvieB Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear this, so sad!!
Christys0925 Posted:

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OMG That is horrible. You all will all be in my prayers. I am soooo sorry!

HamptonsBride Posted:

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addiction is a horrible disease...some people get thru it...others lose their lives...sorry your friend had it end this way!
Colette Posted:

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OMG his poor family. Prayers for this poor kid, and his parents and aunt/uncle... just a horrible, nonsensical loss.
Cpt2007 Posted:

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that's awful. for your moh and her husband. and for you for being there for them.
soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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Addiction is a terrible thing. People don't realize how serious it is. My prayers are with them ALL!!!
milana Posted:

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wow i also have no words. Theyre in my prayers.
sweetdreamz1181 Posted:

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aww thats soo horrible
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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im so sorry to hear this.. my prayers are with the family
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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im really sorry to hear this news. prayers!!
ant n tilde Posted:

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I am so sorry
nifheim Posted:

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Seriously sad and i am sorry. My heart goes out to all who are involved.

I have to say it can effect anyone, anywhere even if the person is in the most perfect family they can join a gang and be drawn in. Why? typically boredom - i won't blame music or society but simply youth boredom and that they find a crowd they think is cool enough to be around and they join them. The crowd is in a gang your butt is in the gang - then where you go from there (jail or od). Many of my friends that were in gangs (all of them were middle income/white/average families) are all dead with the exception of one. Not due to gang activities but drugs. Trust me your going to see more of this here since the economy is just going to be far worse in years to come.

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