What set DH apart from other guys you dated and made you realize that he was the one?
yelley77
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He farted in front of me after only 3 months of dating.
Um, he called me the night of our first date after it was over to make sure I got home ok. With just that phone call, I knew he was a special person!
Toucan311
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He drove to my house in the middle of a blizzard. All of my exes were too p*ssy to do that.
SFAR89
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He liked to play video games, he didn't get mad at me when I looked at other guys, or told him that I thought a guy was really hot. He does the same thing about women, and it doesn't bother me, sometimese I will even point out a hot girl to him, and he will do the same to me lol . We are both pretty laid back and care free, and I think that is when I started to say to myself 'I could marry this guy'. We hardly ever had a fight, and if we did we would make up in a few hours, or the next day. We don't hold grudges against each other.
All of those things made me realize that this is the man I could tolerate for the rest of my life lol
kimNanthony
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Posted by yelley77
He farted in front of me after only 3 months of dating.
Um, he called me the night of our first date after it was over to make sure I got home ok. With just that phone call, I knew he was a special person!
Bride908
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He just made me laugh. He had such a sense of humor and he was so fun to be around.
And he was so sincere with me. I trusted him so easily
KK Holiday
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he really cared about me. to him it wasnt just about trying to hook up with me or that I was pretty. he was considerate about making sure I was comfortable, happy and he was always honest about where we were in the relationship. he didnt play games about when the next time we would see eachother...it was always implied it was everyday
wow--it really makes my exboyfriends sound pretty crappy.
lillprincess54
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CONGRATS on NOTW!!!!!!!
and for Dh was when i was in HS, i got really sick and was in the hosptal for a few days and he never left my side
ant n tilde
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He didn't make fun of me for not being able to do. . .anything. He was so patient when I wasn't allowed to leave my house LOL He didn't complain when he had to meet my mother before I was allowed out. He never teased me ( much ) when he had to walk me home hours before anyone else had to be home. He was just very sweet about it all!
Oh yeah and he waited INSANELY long for me since I was a prude.
SFAR89
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Posted by ant n tilde
Oh yeah and he waited INSANELY long for me since I was a prude.
wow, I thought I was the only one. I Actually made him wait 5 months lol Being that he was my friend before we started dating, it was soooooo weird for me. He told me the other day that he was going to break up with me if I didn't have sex with him when I wound up doing it lol
MnM182008
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DH drove everyday from Freeport to his job in Northport to my house in Holbrook, and would leave every night at 12:00 to drive all the way back to Freeport, and he never missed a day for 4 years. That is why when he sold his car he had over 230,000 miles on it. Never complained, he just loved seeing me, he made me feel like I was the most special person in the world!
MsPotterhead
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I knew he was special towards the beginning of our relationship - there was no one thing, but we just had a great time together, and I just knew he was a wonderful person! Then, 4 months into dating, I broke my ankle. I was in a hospital in Park Slope for 4 nights. DH then lived on the Upper East Side and worked at Columbia. He left work early that day, and stayed with me til midnight, slept at my brooklyn apartment, and was there for my surgery in the morning. For the other few nights, he would go to work, come to brooklyn, stay with me in the hospital til I fell asleep and then would sleep in my apartment and travel over an hour to work, and so on.
After that, when I got out of the hospital, I had a cast on for 2 months. I couldn't be on my own and moved home with my parents. He saw how crazy I was going, and brought me back to his apartment and took care of me. We joked that he and my parents had joint custody of me- He'd keep me for 3 days, and then I'd go to them and so on.
Wow, sorry that was so long! What a great question!
Browneyesncute
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he opened my doors, helped me out of the car, and he was nervous, i know that sounds silly
there was also this instant conection, for day 1 i felt like i can tell him anything!
lizzie217
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Honestly we just totally and completly clicked from the moment we started talking....and I just always knew............... I couldnt compare it to anyone else I ever met
FinallyMrsB18
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after only dating for three weeks i had to go back to school upstate...when i had to say goodbye to him i got really emotional and started crying because i didn't want to have to leave..and he teared up also...i knew from that moment that i never wanted to be apart
DCLM726
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He let me be me!
Joette_Terese
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I didn't seriously date many people since DH and I met right before my 17th birthday. That being said, I knew he was the one because he would take public transportation from Staten Island to Long Island EVERY weekend to see me. For those who may not know, between the SI railroad, the ferry, the subway, the LIRR and then a cab to my house, it could take as long as four hours.
I knew he was dedicated.
RockysGirl
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what set him apart was the fact that he always put me FIRST before anything else. It was as though I was the most important person in his life (and i think i was). He always considered my safety, my feelings, my anything before his own or other people's. I thought that was sweet how attentive & caring he was. So unlike other guys.
Also - I watched to make sure he wasn't that annoying type who's sooo sweet when you're one-on-one, but then totally changes when in front of his friends (or just in general public). I hate guys who need to try to be 'cool'. DH was cool without even trying! lol. He still treated me with love & respect no matter who we were with. I LOVE that!
kimNanthony
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Aww these are all so sweet. I love hearing all of them!!!!!!
Jenn04
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The first night we met he sent me a text message saying he really enjoyed talking to me and that I have such a refreshing personality and it was nice to meet me. I then asked if he wanted to hang out some more - we ended up staying up all night talking in his hotel room and he never once tried to make a move. The next night the same thing happened - we stayed up for hours talking but I had to sneak some kissed in - he he!
Also he lived far (5 hrs) but made it seem like no big deal and promised to see me every weekend! He held to his promise and came to see me a lot more then I could go there! He was totally devoted since day the beginning and still is!