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~*~*~NWQOTD 11/29~*~*~
MerSaysEh
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:25 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:25 PM
~*~*~NWQOTD 11/29~*~*~
Thank you soooo much to Jenna for making me NWOTW my second week on the board
I'll do my best to remember I'm a NW and post the QOTD daily! Also, I haven't been around these parts long so if I re-ask a recent question I apologize
SOO here goes:
What is your and DH's first goal as husband and wife (i.e. buying a house, having kids, etc.) ??
I think our first goal is to decide where we want to live permanently! Obviously right now we're here but we have discussed moving back to my hometown, and I don't want to buy or start TTC until we are settled in our permanent place - I've already moved to a different country once, I just think with a new baby or something like that it will be too hard! Sooo in the next year or so we are going to really think it out and make a decision.
miamimerger
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:33 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:33 PM
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Our first goal was to decide where we wanted to move. DH was applying for tenure-track professor positions across the country, and got a few really good offers. There was one school that he absolutely LOVED but it was in an area of the country that was extremely conservative (not good for us personally) and 2.5 hours away from the closest city. The other school that we considered seriously was in a great area (close to family, 3 major cities within 20 minutes - 1.5 hours away from us), but the school isn't a big name like he's used to working for. We wound up going with the latter, and couldn't be happier!
T E R I
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:37 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:37 PM
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Our biggest decision was getting a puppy, which we got a few weeks after we got married. We already had our house-we bought it a year after we were engaged and we don't plan on having babies.
Byrne2Be
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:50 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:50 PM
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HOUSE! This project is gonna be a doozy but here goes! We went to see our first house on Sat.......
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:57 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 12:57 PM
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we don't really have any immediate goals ... but in the next year or two, we're going to start thinking about finding a house. after we're settled, then we'll start thinking about kiddies.
halfbaked
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:02 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:02 PM
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100% buy a house. We've been saving like crazy. We extended our rental agreement on our house now for the next year and then we're hoping that maybe next Christmas we'll be in our OWN house!
flibbertigibbet
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:09 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:09 PM
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Our main focus right now is paying off our credit cards and then saving as much as we can. Specifically we want to build up a 5 month emergency fund. THANKS SUZE ORMAN.Come summer time we will be ready to TTC.
SummerBride10
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:28 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:28 PM
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Small goals: learning to cook, setting up our apartmentLong term goal: save money and buy a house
Lsorrent
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:31 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:31 PM
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Start saving again!We already have a house and probably won't TTC until at least next year. So other than building our savings back up again, we don't really have any immediate goals.
We did renovate our kitchen a few months after we got married though, and we'll probably renovate our bathrooms next year.
kris_gets_hitched
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:52 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 01:52 PM
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We're fixing up our place. He owns it with his parents (though they don't live there, thank god)...so we've been focusing on doing it room by room.This weekend we'll be working on the final room...living room...painting it and then next week grabbing a couch that we saw last night. Yay!!!
Other than that, saving money, both individually and jointly. We've been doing well with this lately.
And finally, traveling more.
mariedsgn
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 02:03 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 02:03 PM
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Buying a house!!
bride2be1012
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 03:27 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 03:27 PM
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100 % Buying a house !
JAAMS
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 03:34 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 03:34 PM
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We already bought a house and we aren't planning on TTC for about five years. Soooo our goals are to save money and live it up
NYYankeeGirl72
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 03:51 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 03:51 PM
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At this moment, I think DH and I are just trying to get through this year. Once the new year rolls around, our goal is to look into getting our own house or condo, and definitely TTC.
rdubs
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 04:27 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 04:27 PM
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Our first goal is basically achieved, DH is starting his MBA at NYU in February. Next goal might be to buy an apartment and maybe a baby. But it could be baby first!
lori7570
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 04:29 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 04:29 PM
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Buying a house
MrsSx2
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 05:06 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 05:06 PM
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Since we already bought a condo together prior to the wedding, our next duty would be to start a family!
Byrne2Be
Posted: Nov 29, 2010 05:16 PM+

Posted: Nov 29, 2010 05:16 PM
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Posted by rdubs
Our first goal is basically achieved, DH is starting his MBA at NYU in February. Next goal might be to buy an apartment and maybe a baby. But it could be baby first!
I am finishing my MBA at NYU in Feb - thank goooooodness (it was AWESOME i am just SO done...it was a lot with wedding planning, new job, etc).....so FM if he has any questions! He will have a BLAST!
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