Last week DH and I went to see The Dilemma with Vince Vaugh and Kevin James. Todays question comes from that movie.
If you saw your BF's husband/wife cheating on them would you confront the cheater?
Would you tell your BF?
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I dont think I would confront the person first. I would definitely tell my bf what I saw though. But I would try to do it diplomaticly and face to face.
flibbertigibbet
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if i saw meredith's husband kissing another woman -- it would probably be me.
ha.
ha..
...aha.
it never gets old: my wishful thinking...
Future Mrs H
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Posted by flibbertigibbet
if i saw meredith's husband kissing another woman -- it would probably be me.
ha.
ha..
...aha.
it never gets old: my wishful thinking...
Clover23
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i would not 'confront' the cheater, but i would make sure he saw me. yes i would tell my BF.
halfbaked
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I think I'd confront the cheater- tell him 'You tell her or I will.' From my experience, people tend not to believe things unless they hear it from the horse's mouth. Besides, I wouldn't want to be the one to hurt her. But if he didn't follow through and tell her, I would.
grkbarbie
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nope. i mind my bizzz
StaceyWill
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Posted by grkbarbie
nope. i mind my bizzz
Ditto
AngnShaun
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absolutely... after i beat the **** out of them they would go confess
ourwedding9510
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HMMM, if I saw my BF's wife cheating on him? I would tell him. I would confront her and then I would tell him. He's my BF and deserves to know. I tell him everything and I can't hide anything from him so I wouldn't really have a choice.
latinaj
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i will make sure that he knows that i know
kris_gets_hitched
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Hell yeah. I would snap a picture on my phone first and then say something to the person cheating. AND THEN I would approach my friend.
Because if the tables were turned, I'd expect the same.
SoontobeMrs.Brown
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Posted by grkbarbie
nope. i mind my bizzz
You would mind your business if its your BEST FRIEND being cheated on?
ETA: ABOLUTELY I WOULD SAY SOMETHING. My loyalty lies with my best friend. Imagine your best friend knew something like that and kept it from you. Unacceptable. It'd hurt her more in the end if you didnt tell her.
Byrne2Be
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yikes...horrible situation. but ya, i would find a way to tell my bf.