nwr: inlaw vent
just need to vent - and i know i cant complain to my mom or anyone bc they would flip so i am sharing my frustrations on here hoping getting it out will make me feel better...
DH and i have a HORRIBLE relationship with his family. his mom is psycho, his dad drinks a lot, and his brother has a drug problem. they gave us nothing but trouble during the wedding planning.
The other night DH gets a call that his mom is moving in with a friend (DH agrees they should separate/get a divorce bc he said since he can remember their relationship was terrible and right now father-in-law lives in the unfinished basement). she said she was moving out back in May and we are still waiting so i dont really know if this will happen. anyway...she had the nerve to ask DH for money!!!!!!! he was taken back (as was I) and didnt know how to respond. I am 10000% against giving her money! am i wrong???
edit: i should also mention, a few years ago she told her job she no longer wanted to work full time and asked to be put to part time...so she works 1-2 days a week! but that doesn't stop her from getting an iphone, ipad, going for manicures & pedicures weekly and buying new shoes & bags every month.
i want to yell at her and say stop being lazy and work and you would have money!!!! (he job recently offered her a full time position and she turned it down!)
DH and i have a HORRIBLE relationship with his family. his mom is psycho, his dad drinks a lot, and his brother has a drug problem. they gave us nothing but trouble during the wedding planning.
The other night DH gets a call that his mom is moving in with a friend (DH agrees they should separate/get a divorce bc he said since he can remember their relationship was terrible and right now father-in-law lives in the unfinished basement). she said she was moving out back in May and we are still waiting so i dont really know if this will happen. anyway...she had the nerve to ask DH for money!!!!!!! he was taken back (as was I) and didnt know how to respond. I am 10000% against giving her money! am i wrong???
edit: i should also mention, a few years ago she told her job she no longer wanted to work full time and asked to be put to part time...so she works 1-2 days a week! but that doesn't stop her from getting an iphone, ipad, going for manicures & pedicures weekly and buying new shoes & bags every month.
i want to yell at her and say stop being lazy and work and you would have money!!!! (he job recently offered her a full time position and she turned it down!)
