Ok I'm getting REALLY mad now....
Just called home & DH's friend is over AGAIN....
DH’s friend lost his job about a month ago. Actually, more than that. So now that he’s jobless, to pass the time, 'Joey' has been going with DH to work. 3-4 days a week. (DH owns his own company so they screw off ) He says he keeps DH company (aka - they take long lunches). DH doesn’t pay him.
Ok fine but seriously, almost EVERY night when I come home, HE IS OVER.
It’s a little much. It’s another person to cook for and clean up after and another person on my couch (leaving me no where to sit.) and its cutting into my time with DH. We haven't had s@x in almost 2 weeks.
He & DH have a GRAND old time & I feel like I have 2 husbands. Keep in mind, I work ALL DAY & & I come home & to them on the couches. Its not right.
One night last week, I came home & Joey had made sauce & meatballs & was wearing my apron. Yesterday at Easter Dinner, 'Joey' & his mom joined us. I’m getting annoyed. Go away Joey.![]()
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I feel like I'm living in the movie 'You, Me & Dupree' I mentioned something to DH is passing & he got VERY defensive. But honestly, its MY HOUSE.
Please help girlies. I'm at my wits end.
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UPDATE
So I stopped at the market on the way home to pick up something for make for dinner. I go to this Whole Foods type place we have here called Dave's Market. ANYWAY, they have this huge prepared food counter so I bought all prepared stuff, which costs 3x as much. (For example, I bought breaded, cooked eggplant for $8.99 pound last night) And I used DH's card. Hey - its his friends were feeding and food is expensive and I am sick of cooking for a million people every night.
I came in the door & I SWEAR ON MY DEAD CAT'S GRAVE Joey was on my couch with his shirt off. Yup. Laying there in..... wait for it.... wait.... a wife beater.
Also- JOHN was over, another friend. My living room as full and they were watching COPS with Ella sitting right there. I wanted to beat DH with the loaf of bread.
I immediately turned to b!tch mode & hardly said hello. Then Joey comes in the kitchen & says 'what the matter hun?' I said 'oh, I'm just really stressed out.' he says 'not as stressed as me.' Annoying. Go away. I roll my eyes. With that, Joey says 'well, I'm gonna get out of here. Looks like they'll be fireworks tonight.' And he leaves. John did not get the hint as easily but at least he plays with the baby.
Later that night, DH checked his bank account online & said 'you spent $68 at Dave's? You bought eggplant & milk!' I said 'yuuuuuuuuuup. Its expensive to feed you & all your friends.'
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DH’s friend lost his job about a month ago. Actually, more than that. So now that he’s jobless, to pass the time, 'Joey' has been going with DH to work. 3-4 days a week. (DH owns his own company so they screw off ) He says he keeps DH company (aka - they take long lunches). DH doesn’t pay him.
Ok fine but seriously, almost EVERY night when I come home, HE IS OVER.
It’s a little much. It’s another person to cook for and clean up after and another person on my couch (leaving me no where to sit.) and its cutting into my time with DH. We haven't had s@x in almost 2 weeks.
He & DH have a GRAND old time & I feel like I have 2 husbands. Keep in mind, I work ALL DAY & & I come home & to them on the couches. Its not right.
One night last week, I came home & Joey had made sauce & meatballs & was wearing my apron. Yesterday at Easter Dinner, 'Joey' & his mom joined us. I’m getting annoyed. Go away Joey.
I feel like I'm living in the movie 'You, Me & Dupree' I mentioned something to DH is passing & he got VERY defensive. But honestly, its MY HOUSE.
Please help girlies. I'm at my wits end.
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UPDATE
So I stopped at the market on the way home to pick up something for make for dinner. I go to this Whole Foods type place we have here called Dave's Market. ANYWAY, they have this huge prepared food counter so I bought all prepared stuff, which costs 3x as much. (For example, I bought breaded, cooked eggplant for $8.99 pound last night) And I used DH's card. Hey - its his friends were feeding and food is expensive and I am sick of cooking for a million people every night.
I came in the door & I SWEAR ON MY DEAD CAT'S GRAVE Joey was on my couch with his shirt off. Yup. Laying there in..... wait for it.... wait.... a wife beater.
Also- JOHN was over, another friend. My living room as full and they were watching COPS with Ella sitting right there. I wanted to beat DH with the loaf of bread.
I immediately turned to b!tch mode & hardly said hello. Then Joey comes in the kitchen & says 'what the matter hun?' I said 'oh, I'm just really stressed out.' he says 'not as stressed as me.' Annoying. Go away. I roll my eyes. With that, Joey says 'well, I'm gonna get out of here. Looks like they'll be fireworks tonight.' And he leaves. John did not get the hint as easily but at least he plays with the baby.
Later that night, DH checked his bank account online & said 'you spent $68 at Dave's? You bought eggplant & milk!' I said 'yuuuuuuuuuup. Its expensive to feed you & all your friends.'
