Okay....so can i ask what may be a dumb/personal??????

i feel so weird posting this....but i have a ????

How can i put this????

Um.....i've never had anyone.....stay inside when the sex is coming to a climax... Get my drift?

Dave & I are going to start trying in August & i'm going off the pill in March (i've been on it about 15 years now)...and i have no idea what that's going to feel like. Is it weird???

I'm sorry if anyone is offended by this - but i'm being sincere...i'm not all that overly sexual....so i have no clue about this stuff..

Thanks for listening...and hopefully responding..

hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.

Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.

hey i didnt want to leave you hanging out there - i cant really respond right now bc i am at work and i probably shouldnt even have READ the question but i will FM when i get home, and thats a perfectly NORMAL question and this is a perfect place to ask it!

awww---you mean letting him RSVP inside ya, huh?

honestly--you don't really 'feel' it like its not like he um...deposits and you feel the deposit shooting in ya like that. (sometimes i guess you can--but usually he's already all the way up in there--so you don't feel it.

mostly the part that is weird is the 'mess'--the amount of it that is kind of messy and dripping out of you is what is weird.


(btw---there's a chance this might get moved to off-topic if the powers that be see it! so if you click and its not here---check that board)

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Posted by PeteysBride

hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.

Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.

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i was just going to post the same thing....i like it a lot. I'm actually just curious why u haven't since the wedding being that u're on the pill???? is it just for extra procaution??? ....but yes, jen is right. it's not all that much different. u just feel more connected - and well - messier lol.

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Posted by PeteysBride

hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.

Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.

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i was just going to post the same thing....i like it a lot. I'm actually just curious why u haven't since the wedding being that u're on the pill???? is it just for extra procaution??? ....but yes, jen is right. it's not all that much different. u just feel more connected - and well - messier lol.

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I guess because we never wanted to take the chance....as it is only 99.something proof. We want to be sure we can be financially stable before we have a child...and never wanted to risk it.

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Posted by davenjess

I guess because we never wanted to take the chance....as it is only 99.something proof. We want to be sure we can be financially stable before we have a child...and never wanted to risk it.

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i know what u mean---don't want to take that risk if you're not quite ready yet! been there!

i can't lie--my DH hasn't RSVP'd in me...since before our wedding! i had to get off the pill for health reasons and i refused to let him cause i was deathly afraid of getting pregnant. lol

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Posted by davenjess

I guess because we never wanted to take the chance....as it is only 99.something proof. We want to be sure we can be financially stable before we have a child...and never wanted to risk it.

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i know what u mean---don't want to take that risk if you're not quite ready yet! been there!

i can't lie--my DH hasn't RSVP'd in me...since before our wedding! i had to get off the pill for health reasons and i refused to let him cause i was deathly afraid of getting pregnant. lol

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Right...i want a baby so badly....and Dave knows that...but there's no way we can do that right now...we do have a date picked in August, our 6 year anniversary of dating...but until then - i don't know...

Once I go off the pill - i'll probably be so worried! Watch - i'll be one of those girls who goes off it and BLAMMO - first time, preggers!

jess... i can relate to you... he never made 'deposits' before the wedding.. only recently we have started... so its a first for me too.. and i love it..

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Posted by PeteysBride

hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.

Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.

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ditto on all of this. well said jenn. i love it. sometimes i can actually feel it a little(am i the only one?). its nice to be able to hold eachother through that part instead of having to separate.

but yes, prepare to be messyyyyyyy!

What goes up must come down. That is all.

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Posted by cookiemonster

What goes up must come down. That is all.

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Posted by jtgarsik

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Posted by PeteysBride

hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.

Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.

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i was just going to post the same thing....i like it a lot. I'm actually just curious why u haven't since the wedding being that u're on the pill???? is it just for extra procaution??? ....but yes, jen is right. it's not all that much different. u just feel more connected - and well - messier lol.

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I guess because we never wanted to take the chance....as it is only 99.something proof. We want to be sure we can be financially stable before we have a child...and never wanted to risk it.

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totally hear u! hope i didn't offend u at all - i was just wondering!

like jess said - it's actually a really special thing to be able to hold each other during that part...(and yes jess i can sometimes feel it too but now i'm getting into tmi! lol). ANYWAYS, just have a towel on hand if u dont wanna dash to the bathroom!

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Posted by cookiemonster

What goes up must come down. That is all.

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sex is SOOOOO not like the movies!!!

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Posted by jtgarsik

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Posted by PeteysBride

hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.

Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.

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i was just going to post the same thing....i like it a lot. I'm actually just curious why u haven't since the wedding being that u're on the pill???? is it just for extra procaution??? ....but yes, jen is right. it's not all that much different. u just feel more connected - and well - messier lol.

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I guess because we never wanted to take the chance....as it is only 99.something proof. We want to be sure we can be financially stable before we have a child...and never wanted to risk it.

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totally hear u! hope i didn't offend u at all - i was just wondering!

like jess said - it's actually a really special thing to be able to hold each other during that part...(and yes jess i can sometimes feel it too but now i'm getting into tmi! lol). ANYWAYS, just have a towel on hand if u dont wanna dash to the bathroom!

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Posted by cookiemonster

What goes up must come down. That is all.

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sex is SOOOOO not like the movies!!!

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Not unless you have a lot of sheets and a good laundry service.

Def messy BUT I personally LOVE it!! To me it feels sooooooo much better!!!! Nothing like a warm, load being shot into you!!!

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Posted by Aug07OFCbride



ditto on all of this. well said jenn. i love it. sometimes i can actually feel it a little(am i the only one?). its nice to be able to hold eachother through that part instead of having to separate.

but yes, prepare to be messyyyyyyy!

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I can DEF feel it and I LOVE LOVE LOVE it!!

Yes, it's a bit messy, but I do feel a difference. The man tend to swell a bit more and it can make the woman climax as well! I LOVE the feeling!

Good Luck in August!

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Posted by Brian and Marie

Def messy BUT I personally LOVE it!! To me it feels sooooooo much better!!!! Nothing like a warm, load being shot into you!!!

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marie u kill me lol..i freakin' LOVE u!