Okay....so can i ask what may be a dumb/personal??????
Original post by davenjess
i feel so weird posting this....but i have a ????
How can i put this????
Um.....i've never had anyone.....stay inside when the sex is coming to a climax... Get my drift?
Dave & I are going to start trying in August & i'm going off the pill in March (i've been on it about 15 years now)...and i have no idea what that's going to feel like. Is it weird???
I'm sorry if anyone is offended by this - but i'm being sincere...i'm not all that overly sexual....so i have no clue about this stuff..
Thanks for listening...and hopefully responding..
davenjess
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hMM...All I can say is its not that much different. Sloppier lol. Drippier and you have to make mad dashes to the bathroom before you make wet spots on the bed but I like it personally-makes me feel more connected to him.
Otherwise, same as outside; just the mess is inside rather than out.
i was just going to post the same thing....i like it a lot. I'm actually just curious why u haven't since the wedding being that u're on the pill???? is it just for extra procaution??? ....but yes, jen is right. it's not all that much different. u just feel more connected - and well - messier lol.
I guess because we never wanted to take the chance....as it is only 99.something proof. We want to be sure we can be financially stable before we have a child...and never wanted to risk it.
totally hear u! hope i didn't offend u at all - i was just wondering!
like jess said - it's actually a really special thing to be able to hold each other during that part...(and yes jess i can sometimes feel it too but now i'm getting into tmi! lol). ANYWAYS, just have a towel on hand if u dont wanna dash to the bathroom!
You didn't offend at ALL!!!!! It takes WAY more to offend me! I rather often say that if i didn't listen to and LOVE O&A - i never would met and fell in love with dave & his friends....who say horrid things daily... well, not dave- but his friends!
I truly appreciate the replies girls! I just didn't know what to expect!
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Just posting to agree with all the ladies; very messy but so worth it!! Feels great!!
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Def messy BUT I personally LOVE it!! To me it feels sooooooo much better!!!! Nothing like a warm, load being shot into you!!!
Gotta love the eloquence...
Cooks we keep hand towels at the end of the bed for that reason-my mom came over unexpectedly one day and she asked about it and i was like 'Um...we use it to swat at the cats because fur coems out of terrycloth better than like my socks.'
She NEVER asked again
davenjess
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Def messy BUT I personally LOVE it!! To me it feels sooooooo much better!!!! Nothing like a warm, load being shot into you!!!
Gotta love the eloquence...
Cooks we keep hand towels at the end of the bed for that reason-my mom came over unexpectedly one day and she asked about it and i was like 'Um...we use it to swat at the cats because fur coems out of terrycloth better than like my socks.'
She NEVER asked again
OMG - that's hysterical!!!!
We keep towels under the bed as well....for clean up purposes..but they are ALL the way under the bed...
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ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by PeteysBride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Def messy BUT I personally LOVE it!! To me it feels sooooooo much better!!!! Nothing like a warm, load being shot into you!!!
Gotta love the eloquence...
Cooks we keep hand towels at the end of the bed for that reason-my mom came over unexpectedly one day and she asked about it and i was like 'Um...we use it to swat at the cats because fur coems out of terrycloth better than like my socks.'
She NEVER asked again
OMG - that's hysterical!!!!
We keep towels under the bed as well....for clean up purposes..but they are ALL the way under the bed...
tissues on the night table babyyy.
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
jtgarsik
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Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Def messy BUT I personally LOVE it!! To me it feels sooooooo much better!!!! Nothing like a warm, load being shot into you!!!
MArie Im laughing out loud right now.....You make it sound Oh so Romantic Im dying
GraceAndAdam
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definitely messssssy, but otherwise no big difference. Good luck TTC!
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by jtgarsik
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Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
Brian and Marie
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Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Brian and Marie
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Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Oh yeah- can be quite GROSS!!! I hate it- take a shower and all and then what do you know- his load drip drip drips outta me
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Oh yeah- can be quite GROSS!!! I hate it- take a shower and all and then what do you know- his load drip drip drips outta me
haha!
BOOYAH- smacks the ovaries! Comes drippin out. Pee it out.
....morning after, get up and shower and low and behold....drip drip drizzleeeeeee.
Ok, Im in a foul mood. I need to shut my trap!
davenjess
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Oh yeah- can be quite GROSS!!! I hate it- take a shower and all and then what do you know- his load drip drip drips outta me
haha!
BOOYAH- smacks the ovaries! Comes drippin out. Pee it out.
....morning after, get up and shower and low and behold....drip drip drizzleeeeeee.
Ok, Im in a foul mood. I need to shut my trap!
wowza - who knew....
Aug07OFCbride
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Posted by davenjess
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Oh yeah- can be quite GROSS!!! I hate it- take a shower and all and then what do you know- his load drip drip drips outta me
haha!
BOOYAH- smacks the ovaries! Comes drippin out. Pee it out.
....morning after, get up and shower and low and behold....drip drip drizzleeeeeee.
Ok, Im in a foul mood. I need to shut my trap!
wowza - who knew....
sorry, im just being silly.
its not that dramatic by any means!
davenjess
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Posted by davenjess
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Oh yeah- can be quite GROSS!!! I hate it- take a shower and all and then what do you know- his load drip drip drips outta me
haha!
BOOYAH- smacks the ovaries! Comes drippin out. Pee it out.
....morning after, get up and shower and low and behold....drip drip drizzleeeeeee.
Ok, Im in a foul mood. I need to shut my trap!
wowza - who knew....
sorry, im just being silly.
its not that dramatic by any means!
i figured :) but i apprecitae the info!
jtgarsik
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Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by Brian and Marie
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by jtgarsik
Posted by Aug07OFCbride
Posted by PegaLega
ITA with the other ladies...messy but not much of a difference. Also-when you are TTC-from what I have heard you are supposed to lay with your legs up in the air for a little while afterwards
hehe. yea, ive also heard that you shouldnt rush to get up and clean/push it out and whatnot. not sure if that really makes a difference
the thing is...this will sound gross...but its like as soon as the 'pull out' happens, everything/alot kinda comes out so...i wonder if just staying there for a bit is better? is that ridiculous?
LMAO jess - i LOVE that u said 'push it out'...i thought i was the only one! gotta get it all out otherwise there's random drips!
heck, i get morning after drippage! am i the only one?!
I've DEF had morning after leakage!!! And DEF gotta PUSH IT OUT or it'll be drippin all day long- my hubby DROPS A LOAD
when in doubt..i can always count on marie to know what im talkin bout!
the first time i sit/stand up the morning after, i get like a rush of it, so annoying. and thats AFTER peeing and everything afterwards the night before.
Oh yeah- can be quite GROSS!!! I hate it- take a shower and all and then what do you know- his load drip drip drips outta me
haha!
BOOYAH- smacks the ovaries! Comes drippin out. Pee it out.
....morning after, get up and shower and low and behold....drip drip drizzleeeeeee.
Ok, Im in a foul mood. I need to shut my trap!
this is TOO funny but SOOOO the truth! morning after drippage...sometimes DH is like 'GEEZ babe!' and i'm like HELLOOOO this is YOU not ME! lol morning after drippage.... where's the emote-icon for that??
PeteysBride
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this is TOO funny but SOOOO the truth! morning after drippage...sometimes DH is like 'GEEZ babe!' and i'm like HELLOOOO this is YOU not ME! lol morning after drippage.... where's the emote-icon for that??
The best part is that if GOD FORBID HE gets any on HIS leg because he jerked out too quick and we get arterial spray, he starts yelling 'EWWW sticky!'
Ok so I can drip all day and thats ok but YOU can't deal with your own?!!!
lol it's fun though-we have relay races to see who gets to the restroom first.
