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On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

nrvbrd Posted:

On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

People who had these inconsiderate people at their wedding:

1. If you could do it over would you have invited them?

2. Did you know this about these people before you invited them?

I ask this because I know quite a few people on our list who would do this.

yabbobay Posted:

Re: On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

one was my first cousin...so yes...i would have still invited him...also he came through 3 months later...I think he thought that my aunt took care of him with their guilt...even though he is 29 years old...

the other was my second cousin...who is complete trash...I didn't expect them to come...but they did

as for the no shows...who didn't give gifts...one is addicted to drugs...so I should have known...but I don't think DH would not let me not invite him...
jennbaby Posted:

Re: On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

I didn't know they would do this.

I didn't know people do this! Well Ihave read they do on LIW but never thought it would happen to me kind of things!
I didn't invite to get a gift, but come on, an empty card??

If I had to do it over, no I would not have invited them I felt they had 'no respect' for us!

februarybride Posted:

Re: On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

I would still invite these people to my wedding because I wanted them to be there celebrating with us. However it hurts my feelings to think that they didn't think our wedding was such a big deal that they didn't even give us a card with kind words!
HeatherandNick Posted:

Re: On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

Everyone I inivted I wanted to be there for my special day - so yes I would still invite them

mishandgerard Posted:

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my cousns, and people i worked with. i might not have invited my co-workers again, but i would invite my cousin.

susans Posted:

Re: On the heels of Jennbaby's Cheapo post

If they were friends of mine, I'd still invite them because friends are friends, but I'd still be incredibly insulted.
If it was my parent's friends, probably not.

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