We might not be spending it together. Long story made short Dh just moved his parents to PA ( his uncles vacation home) and all his $hit here, YA FINALLY!!! But his uncle is being an A$$ and wants to spend the night with his wife for V-day( which means his parents will watch the kids and he cant get back to NY, has to wait for the uncle to come back with him and the truck) and I might not see him now for our 1st V-day.
Like he told his uncle you have had 16 of them already this our 1st married one!!!! Plus his B-day is the day after Another reason added to the list of why I cant stand his family!!!
I hope I explained it right It's been along night.
gina409
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i have to celebrate our first on another night also
but i look at it is we r switching the date..lol..we can celebrate it whenever
sux but what else can u do...just have that nighty ready when he comes in
KerriJohnS
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I sorry. I know it stinks.
I won't see DH either. He is going to have to work. Still doing that overtime every day with sanitation because of the snow.
can you celebrate on Monday or another day instead? I'm sorry.
MaggieLuvsJoe
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That really stinks. Me and DH have to celebrate v-day tonight bc his brother and sister in law decided to have their son's 1st bday party on v-day...so much for our first valentine's day together!
Pick another night and celebrate as if it's v-day, don't be sad
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DH is working too - he'll be home later in the night, but after working a 12 hr shift - not much he's going to want to do when he gets home but eat something quick & go to sleep Oh well - we'll have to celebrate on Mon I guess
MrsDtoBe09
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That really stinks! What jerks his aunt and uncle are!
dazies1011
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That really stinks! What jerks his aunt and uncle are!
Tell me about it, they never care for anyone but themselves. Even their kids are stuck up and bratty
dazies1011
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Thanks girls, maybe we should have a GTG for the lonely wives on their 1st V-day
He just better be back Monday for his B-day
MrsDrinkh20
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Aww dont be sad. Pick another night! This is one of 2 years that we will celebrate Valentine's day ON valentine's day. DH usually goes skiing but they aren't leaving until monday this time!
IrishBrideASmiling
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I would drive to PA and surprise him!
meara
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aw that stinks! DH and I won't be together either. . I have to go on a work trip tomorrow morning so we had to celebrate it last night!
I'd just pick a special day and then celebrate then! I know it's not exactly the same but whats imp is you're together!
MrsDrinkh20
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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling
I would drive to PA and surprise him!
That is a great idea!!
dazies1011
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Posted by IrishBrideASmiling
I would drive to PA and surprise him!
That is a great idea!!
It is but, I dont do bridges alone
AugustBridein09
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I think you should either pick another day its not Feb 14th that matters its the time you spend with DH or drive up to see him, that would be so sweet. Which bridge do you take? Maybe a GPS could find a way to avoid the bridge?
I Love Paolo
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I am sure you guys will celebrate another night. I also will not be with DH for our 1st Valentine's Day, he will be in Vancouver for the Olympics, so I totally understand how you are feeling.
dazies1011
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I think you should either pick another day its not Feb 14th that matters its the time you spend with DH or drive up to see him, that would be so sweet. Which bridge do you take? Maybe a GPS could find a way to avoid the bridge?
I have no idea how to even get there or where his uncle's house is.
MakingofaMulligan
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I didn't see DH last year for our first. (I was in FL, he was in NY). So I feel like this year is our first!?!?! Don't worry, pick another day and make it better then V Day!
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We spent the day driving home from MA after being up until 4am to celebrate the 30th birthday of our GM who has been an @$$ to us since and before the wedding (but 12 years of friendship, we decided to be the bigger people and go, and he was cold and standoffish to us.) Needless to say we are tired, feel gross (to many people sleeping there to shower) and cranky. My throat is starting to hurt. But hey, we spent the day together.
