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POLL- Do you think your guests were......
Betty Posted: Oct 13, 2003 11:41 AM+
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POLL- Do you think your guests were......

Just curious. We thought our guests (overall, definately not the two people that didn't give anything - not even a card ) were VERY generous. We were actually shocked at how much we got at our wedding (happily of course )
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curly2003 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 11:46 AM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

I cannot complain I felt the love
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nrvbrd Posted: Oct 13, 2003 11:50 AM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

Honestly I did not go into this thing expecting to make tons of $$$$$. I will say that we had a little of everything- very generous, average and a handful of stiffers

I think people have no clue when it comes to weddings and unfortunately some of those people where at my wedding.
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Niecey Posted: Oct 13, 2003 11:50 AM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

I think for the most part our guests were generous to very generous. DH and I actually felt guilty when we were opening our cards. The gifts and $$ was NOT what was important to us. We were flattered by people's generousity...but I am sure like everyone we had a few stingy people...(I don't mean that rude - just based on what we gave to other people when we went to their weddings or what we know about their lifestyles - we were surprised how 'un-generous' they were.)
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Betty Posted: Oct 13, 2003 11:55 AM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

We had the SAME feelings Nicey!! We felt sooooo bad opening some of our gifts We were very thankful
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curly2003 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:00 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

One gift even made DH cry His brother was EXTREMELY generous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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sonia Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:00 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

generous for the most part .. but some were pathetic!
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MrsTC Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:04 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

some were more generous than i ever expected!!

and then others, close family gave NOTHING at all!
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Sonicstef Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:15 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

For the most part, we got what we expected. In some cases we were touched by peoples generosity and in others we were shocked at peoples cheapness. But 90% of our guests gave us what we expected.


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christy Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:21 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

I would say there were a handful of very generous people, most people surprised us with not being generous at all. We totally did not do well in the gift area. But, we still had the best wedding!
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IrishTracy Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:34 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

one of my brothers & one of Johns sisters were VERY VERY generous!!! We couldn't get over it!

But my filthy rich cousin gave us $75 & a candle! gee thanks!!
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chmlengr Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:39 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

I can't complain. I know all our gifts were what people could afford to give. Whether it was $50 or $1000, we were very thankful....
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HeatherandNick Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:41 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

I feel like all of you. Some were very generous - others not so much so
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Jenny5150 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 02:13 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

They were all generous to very generous!

We were very shocked by the generosity of some of our guests. Can't say we had any 'stiffers'.
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ChristineC68 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 02:15 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

For the most part we were overwhelemd by our guests generosity but there were a few surprises, not the good kind.
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michele31 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 02:48 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

For the most part our guests gave an average gift, there were others that I was suprised at (not happily) such as my own mother. But I planned the wedding that I wanted and never once thought I would even make some of it back.
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chmpgnrose Posted: Oct 13, 2003 02:53 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

Ours were very generous.
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precise97 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 03:26 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

I honestly felt that people could have given us a lot more especially knowing their professions. Those were even some of the people that came empty handed. I must admit that I did have some very generous people also.
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kmcwed Posted: Oct 13, 2003 03:35 PM+
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Re: POLL- Do you think your guests were......

Ours were very generous for the most part. We actually came very close to breaking even. No complaints here!
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