Post Wedding Depression

I just started experiencing this...and I posted about it on 07' and no one cared lol I was like WOW I really am a married old lady not even the 07' girls want to hear that lol


I think it hit me b/c yesterday we had my SIL's e-party and I was like my god it felt like yesterday, I was just planning that and now our wedding is over.....how & when did that happen? I thought our house would keep us busy, which it is but I sorta miss planning (I thought those words would NEVER come out of my mouth!!)

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Posted by DNicholes

I just started experiencing this...and I posted about it on 07' and no one cared lol I was like WOW I really am a married old lady not even the 07' girls want to hear that lol


I think it hit me b/c yesterday we had my SIL's e-party and I was like my god it felt like yesterday, I was just planning that and now our wedding is over.....how & when did that happen? I thought our house would keep us busy, which it is but I sorta miss planning (I thought those words would NEVER come out of my mouth!!)

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I am sorry, I must Not of saw your post that day.
I Do Care

I feel the same. We have quite a Few Weddings from October-December.
I am NOT Looking forward to going to any of them.

Is that MEAN??

I am Happy all the planning is Over. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable on the 2007 Boards. I can't explain it. But I am So Over the whole seating, and favors, and all that stuff.

I am Very sad the HM is over. We had such an Amazing time.
I feel alot sadder looking at the HM pics for some reason.

Is it crazy that I LIKED the planning? I'm sad the wedding is over for many reasons - I enjoyed putting everything together, I loved seeing all my friends and family in one place, and, I admit it, it was fun being the center of attention! I always want to talk about the wedding and hope that whenever we're with our friends, someone will bring it up. I'm trying to re-live it by doing wedding-related things like writing TY notes and putting together our album, but it's not the same.

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Posted by Becks526

Is it crazy that I LIKED the planning? I'm sad the wedding is over for many reasons - I enjoyed putting everything together, I loved seeing all my friends and family in one place, and, I admit it, it was fun being the center of attention! I always want to talk about the wedding and hope that whenever we're with our friends, someone will bring it up. I'm trying to re-live it by doing wedding-related things like writing TY notes and putting together our album, but it's not the same.

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OMG I've been doing the SAME thing! I tried to start my TYs and I constantly look back at pictures. I even started putting together a shadow box of our invitation and my garter -- but its just not the same as actually planning the wedding. Its so depressing!

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Posted by AeroJenn

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Posted by Becks526

Is it crazy that I LIKED the planning? I'm sad the wedding is over for many reasons - I enjoyed putting everything together, I loved seeing all my friends and family in one place, and, I admit it, it was fun being the center of attention! I always want to talk about the wedding and hope that whenever we're with our friends, someone will bring it up. I'm trying to re-live it by doing wedding-related things like writing TY notes and putting together our album, but it's not the same.

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OMG I've been doing the SAME thing! I tried to start my TYs and I constantly look back at pictures. I even started putting together a shadow box of our invitation and my garter -- but its just not the same as actually planning the wedding. Its so depressing!

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It's good to know I'm not the only one! I have decorated our entire apartment with wedding pics and DH is like, 'I'm tired of looking at us!' I want to plan another wedding (to DH again, of course!).

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Posted by ruzi777

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Posted by DNicholes

I just started experiencing this...and I posted about it on 07' and no one cared lol I was like WOW I really am a married old lady not even the 07' girls want to hear that lol


I think it hit me b/c yesterday we had my SIL's e-party and I was like my god it felt like yesterday, I was just planning that and now our wedding is over.....how & when did that happen? I thought our house would keep us busy, which it is but I sorta miss planning (I thought those words would NEVER come out of my mouth!!)

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I am sorry, I must Not of saw your post that day.
I Do Care

I feel the same. We have quite a Few Weddings from October-December.
I am NOT Looking forward to going to any of them.

Is that MEAN??

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If I had known this we wouldnt have sent you an invitation.

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Posted by ErinC0119

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Posted by ruzi777

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Posted by DNicholes

I just started experiencing this...and I posted about it on 07' and no one cared lol I was like WOW I really am a married old lady not even the 07' girls want to hear that lol


I think it hit me b/c yesterday we had my SIL's e-party and I was like my god it felt like yesterday, I was just planning that and now our wedding is over.....how & when did that happen? I thought our house would keep us busy, which it is but I sorta miss planning (I thought those words would NEVER come out of my mouth!!)

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I am sorry, I must Not of saw your post that day.
I Do Care

I feel the same. We have quite a Few Weddings from October-December.
I am NOT Looking forward to going to any of them.

Is that MEAN??

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If I had known this we wouldnt have sent you an invitation.

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I just posted the same response on 07' but in case you see this first:


she Def. did not mean it as I don't want to go to HER wedding or any of the weddings.....she was saying how she's not looking forward to going b/c it would make her upset to go to other weddings b/c hers is over.

Instead of jumping the gun....read what I had posted previously....I was upset b/c I had a wedding related thing to go to and it made me miss my wedding and my planning which is what she was trying to say.


Instead you've now made a huge thread about how rude she is when you didn't even hear what she had to say.

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Posted by DNicholes

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Posted by ErinC0119

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Posted by ruzi777

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Posted by DNicholes

I just started experiencing this...and I posted about it on 07' and no one cared lol I was like WOW I really am a married old lady not even the 07' girls want to hear that lol


I think it hit me b/c yesterday we had my SIL's e-party and I was like my god it felt like yesterday, I was just planning that and now our wedding is over.....how & when did that happen? I thought our house would keep us busy, which it is but I sorta miss planning (I thought those words would NEVER come out of my mouth!!)

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I am sorry, I must Not of saw your post that day.
I Do Care

I feel the same. We have quite a Few Weddings from October-
December.
I am NOT Looking forward to going to any of them.

Is that MEAN??

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If I had known this we wouldnt have sent you an invitation.

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I just posted the same response on 07' but in case you see this first:


she Def. did not mean it as I don't want to go to HER wedding or any of the weddings.....she was saying how she's not looking forward to going b/c it would make her upset to go to other weddings b/c hers is over.

Instead of jumping the gun....read what I had posted previously....I was upset b/c I had a wedding related thing to go to and it made me miss my wedding and my planning which is what she was trying to say.


Instead you've now made a huge thread about how rude she is when you didn't even hear what she had to say.

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THANK YOU
DEVON!!!!
It was Defitnely MISUNDERSTOOD!!!!!
Oh Here comes the DRAMA!!!

I meant it b/c my wedding was OVER!!!!!

AND HOW Upsetting it is going to be to attend another wedding.

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Posted by ruzi777

I meant it b/c my wedding was OVER!!!!!

AND HOW Upsetting it is going to be to attend another wedding.

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Don't worry hon I'm sure she is just stressed about her own wedding and taking out those stressses on you..We all know you meant nothing by it..I hope it all works out

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Posted by ruzi777

I meant it b/c my wedding was OVER!!!!!

AND HOW Upsetting it is going to be to attend another wedding.

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I'm an 07'er and I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. That thread is inappropriate. Your post was taken out of context and misunderstood...do you really want to be friends with someone like that?
[ok, no more newlywed boards crashing ]

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Posted by SunBride07

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Posted by ruzi777

I meant it b/c my wedding was OVER!!!!!

AND HOW Upsetting it is going to be to attend another wedding.

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I'm an 07'er and I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. That thread is inappropriate. Your post was taken out of context and misunderstood...do you really want to be friends with someone like that?
[ok, no more newlywed boards crashing ]

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Crash anytime! We like the 'nice' brides to be here

All the Drama.

Well I am at work right now, so I guess I have to finish this up when I get home tonight at round 11 pm.

Thank you for ALL THE SUPPORT LADIES!!!!
LOVE TO YOU ALL