So, do you harbor bad feelings still about ex-friends?
If you don't, how do you get past it? I just can't stop feeling angry over one particular ex-friend.
If you do, what are some things you think about? Hail on their wedding day, etc?
squeekietoy
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YES! Like, I wish that she would get fat again, that she'll never get married, etc.
She was a real piece of shi!t and it took me a long time for me to see her for what she really was.
MrsInglima
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I have a few. For the most part I just get angry when I think about them or they get brought up. For one or two in particular I always wish general unhappiness on them, but I don't get more crazy than that. There comes a time when you need to just let it go.
Toucan311
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Maybe I'll just pee on her car.
ChristineAaron08
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Posted by Mimacat
Maybe I'll just pee on her car.
Yes, you should. THAT, if nothing else, is sure to work.
Toucan311
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Posted by ChristineAaron08
Posted by Mimacat
Maybe I'll just pee on her car.
Yes, you should. THAT, if nothing else, is sure to work.
I'm going to do that, and leave a note that says 'I peed on your car' just so she KNOWS.
Wifeynella
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Only a 2 of them.
One of them I prayed for weeks her FH would leave her or do the same thing to her she did to me. One of my exs cheated on me with her. I wanted it to hail, have the hall close, you know it I wanted it. None of it happened, but they are in the middle of separating after until 3 months.
Another one I wished would get fat b/c she used to 'tease' me about being heavier than her. Well it happened and to say I did a little jig when I found out would be an understatement.
kirstenjk
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I haven't had to deal with this recently but I am trying to take a calmer approach to things. Trying to let things go, shoot them out to the universe, and not dwell.
It's all well and good now but in the heat of the moment, I might be wishing the hail, locusts, and boils on someone!!
