Question about Strippers. . .

When you know DH is going to see some strippers - do you ever try to send him with something to remember you by, so to speak.

DH is going tonight so I made sure I was super attentive last night and when he leaves tonight I will definitely NOT be in sweats or pajamas. . . I will send him off in something cute. . .

LOL I overthink things but in my head it makes a difference. . . not that he would ever do anything but if I am all mean and gross before he leaves maybe he will appreciate them just a little bit TOO much if you know what I mean.

Or, am I crazy?

I think it is a cute idea!!! I don't think you in something skimpy could hurt one bit....
Unless you want to hurt him!!

I'd take care of business before , I did on the night of our batchlorette/ batchlor party . It did not stop his friends and MY FATHER from sending a plethora of girls over to him where he had three solid hours of lap dances and proceeded to tell me his d8ck hurt from it




I told him I hoped he enjoyed himself, because those days are over for him since all of his friends are married except for 2 and they did not go to his party , so he is not going to theirs.


* now that he is married, no strippers for him , i didn't want to be that girl who did not ' allow' her man not to go, but out of respect for me, no lap dances for him anymore

Ha Ha i do the same thing!! you are not crazy!


can't send him out with a loaded gun

the night of DH's Bach party i was dressed up leaving to go out with the girls, i think i actually heard his jaw hit the floor!! it was great! lol

Tilde,
Stick a pair of your panties in his pocket where he keeps his wallet, and make sure you take out all of the $1 bills.

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Posted by SusiBtoM

Tilde,
Stick a pair of your panties in his pocket where he keeps his wallet, and make sure you take out all of the $1 bills.

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The week before he went on his bachelor party in Vegas I wore us both out. I needed to make sure that anytime he thought about 'naughty' things, all he'd be able to thing about was me, lol

I totally agree with you, honey!

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Posted by SusiBtoM

Tilde,
Stick a pair of your panties in his pocket where he keeps his wallet, and make sure you take out all of the $1 bills.

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Tilde here is your chance to do one of the things on your list

Initiate!!!!!! That will really leave on burned image in his brain of what he is coming home to!!!!!!!

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Posted by SusiBtoM

Tilde,
Stick a pair of your panties in his pocket where he keeps his wallet, and make sure you take out all of the $1 bills.

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Okay that is hysterical!

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Posted by anneandchris

Tilde here is your chance to do one of the things on your list

Initiate!!!!!! That will really leave on burned image in his brain of what he is coming home to!!!!!!!

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I did that last night!

I think its a cute idea, i just never thought to do that

He hasnt gone often while we've been together, but i think the times he has i couldnt really do that now that I think about it. I mean one time he was in vegas for his bachelor party so not like i could've done anything ahead of time lol. ANother time he went for a friends bachelor party, they went to dinner, and he actually called me on his way to the strip club and said to come pick him up bc he didnt want to stay, and after 15 mins of being there he left, that was the only time we were together before he went lol. I was there when he told his friend he was just gonna go to dinner, and they all said he has to go after too, but then after said, ok ill go in with you guys but told me to pick him up. Another time was when he was in philly with his friends and again didnt see him ahead of time.

I would be loving with him before, maybe do something real nice for him and show him how much you love him lol. I wouldnt do anything to turn him on, you dont want to turn him on and then send him to the strip club well i doubt he would do anything so not like you have to worry about that.

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by anneandchris

Tilde here is your chance to do one of the things on your list

Initiate!!!!!! That will really leave on burned image in his brain of what he is coming home to!!!!!!!

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I did that last night!

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Good for you! Well two nights in a row -- that might really get him!

I do the same thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He always wants to rush home to me! so it works!!! and the bpics help too!!!! I swear a couple of days before his bachelor party I wore lingerie for a couple of days straight, and he would catch me constantly in panties and a bra as I walked through my house! lol It worked..lol when He was actually on his bachelor party I received so many texts that it seemed as if he was bored!! lol So i must of left a thought of me in his head!!!

Just out of curiosity, does he go often? Is this a norm for the other NW's on this board?

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Posted by MrsD71208

Just out of curiosity, does he go often? Is this a norm for the other NW's on this board?

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NO, dh went for his bp, he went for a friends bp but thats the time he called me to pick him up 15 mins after he got there, and then 1 other time in the beginning of our relationship. He used to go more often when he was single but now he doesnt really go.

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

do you guys consider a stripper rubbing her 'stuff' in your DHs face cheating?

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i am different than most girls well not all but alot and i say no lol. WHat he does after she does that though is what you have to worry about

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

do you guys consider a stripper rubbing her 'stuff' in your DHs face cheating?

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i think everyone is different. what counts/what really matters is that you & ur husband are on the same level with subjects like these.

josh & i have a standard: When we took our vows we didn't just vow not to 'cheat' - we also vowed to honor and respect each other...and in our personal view - strippers are none of the above. in other words; there's a lot more to being unfaithful than just physically cheating.

again - this is just OUR standard...i think being faithful to each other is where your personal standard as a couple is at.