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Question for you ladies...Should I?...

Original post by PeteysBride

Give DH what he wants?

Ok this is the deal before I go to lunch. I expect to read lots of responses when I get back ladies!

We're doing the day-after shoot. Originally the idea was to do it in the city; grand central, Central park, etc. Fun, public photos.

BUT DH has major anxiety-just called me up at work to ask me if maybe we could do them in a less public venue.

There are only two other things I have ever seen him this anxious about; our wedding and dancing in public. He gets physically sick at the idea of dancing where people can see, though he dances with me at home.

He wants to do the shoot in the woods because he likes those shots the best. We live near a resrvation. We used to go there all the time in the summers when we startd dating. Its free to the public but VERY isolated in the sense when we would go out on the best days, we'd see maybe one other person with their dog.

So we'd get great shots I know, and he would get his isolation which would probably make for better shots because he'd be relaxed. He LOVES the woods; grew up playing in them as a kid so it's his thing. he likes to explore.

'm just not sure because 1.) kinda liked the idea of th city pics 2) I dont even know if our photographer would be willing to travel that far. I have to ask her first.

but Im thinking if she says it ok, I should just do it in the woods right? Because I dont wnat him to be miserable.

Thoughts?
HeatherRose Posted:

Re: Question for you ladies...Should I?...

i grew up in Amityville... there are so many places I'll FM you.

PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by HeatherRose

i grew up in Amityville... there are so many places I'll FM you.



Heather I LUUUUV you!
sugarkube4 Posted:

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Posted by HeatherRose

i think you should do a few city shots then head over to central park, and take a bunch more away from all the people, since theres millions of places within there.

BTW i'm so jealous your doing these pics, I wish we had $$ to do them, I think they always look so awesome!!




Heather is a smartypants!!! I looooooove this idea!! This was you BOTH get what you want!! Marriage is about COMPROMISE!!!!!! He's going to have to deal a little with the city landscape and you will have to suck it up with the forest shots!!!

Compromise!!!!! Yeaaaaa!!!!!
diva7531 Posted:

Re: Question for you ladies...Should I?...

3 words Kitty the stray. The pics of her and DH in the woods during her DAS were GREAT! Do the woods, DH will be more omfy and that is what you need, GL! Hope she travels!

amytee Posted:

Re: Question for you ladies...Should I?...

do it in the woods.......is that like 'why don't we do it in the road'
all kidding aside....my dh gets the same way about being in public especially with intimate situations...i think the woods would make for gorgous pictures! go for it.
hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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WOODS!!! plus your hubby will be more comfortable. the more relaxed he is , the more natural the pics.

2nd, well, have you seen kittythestray's pics? she did a day after shoot with angelica glass in a woody area and they came out sick!!

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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it's so funny when you dont read everyone else's response and then you realize everyone basically says the same thing!

the whole kittythestray thing, yeah i thought i was original.

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