Question re OOT bridal shower

I have a question and need some opinions. My brother's fiancee is from St. Louis and her mom is throwing her a bridal shower out in St. Louis. I am in the bridal party and can not afford to fly there twice once for the wedding and another for the shower. What can I do to be involved?? I need some ideas, even though I can't go I'd like to do something nice.

Thanks...

you can send an extra special gift ..

there is that gift where you give a different color candle sticks to symbolize different times in the new married couples lives with a poem. (first night, first fight, first child ect) fm me if you want more info- i will try to find it.

sign up for spirit air emails - they have crazy low prices sometimes.. also check your rewards on your credit cards- u may actually be able to go twice

Send her flowers at the bridal shower? If it's at a restaurant, pay for a bottle of champagne or a special bottle of wine?