Has anyone ever been in a relationship with someone and *thought* or find out after it was over they were gay?
We were just talking about this at work and had to see what the girls had to say
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I am about 99% positive that one of my ex boyfriends was gay...
I knew he swung both ways (on occasion)... does that count?
apriladam9206
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not me, a friend of mine has... she ended up just joining in they ALL remained good friends.
They are like a forever episode of swingtown
PegaLega
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Posted by What
I am about 99% positive that one of my ex boyfriends was gay...
I knew he swung both ways (on occasion)... does that count?
it can I guess
SylvieB
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Yes. Absolutely. He is definetly gay (or maybe bi?) He just doesn't know it yet.
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Posted by SylvieB
Yes. Absolutely. He is definetly gay (or maybe bi?) He just doesn't know it yet.
d h!
PegaLega
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Posted by SylvieB
Yes. Absolutely. He is definetly gay (or maybe bi?) He just doesn't know it yet.
see that is where I am stuck...how do you not know
MeNBobs
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I thought a lot of them were gay but it turned out they were just European. Those short shorts can throw you off.
carolinebr
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yes, there was one. I used to tell him too. I actually ran into him many years later & said 'are you out of the closet yet' (jokingly) and he said 'yes.'
HamptonsBride
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not personally but my friends sister lived with a guy for years who turned out to be gay...they are still great friends....
Snick n Nick
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No but I had a friend who had a girlfriend for a long time, and DH didn't like him b/c he thought he had a crush on me (his gf didn't like me either, b/c she thought that too), and she eventually broke up with him, and then a year or 2 ago (after we all graduated college) he came out.....so, for her that was the situation I suppose! They had been dating since HS....
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i am the original fag hag d'jour
my HS boyfriend---came out 3 mos after we broke up
my first 'bf' in like jr. high/elementary school---found him on myspace....he's gay. a guy i had a HUGE crush on in jr. high--found him on the other guy's myspace--GAY
2 guys i hooked up with in college--later on they came out as: 1 gay 1 bi
when i hung out in the big gay party scene years ago with my drag queen roommate----all the gay guys and drag queens used to ask if i would sleep with them--cause they wanted to experience a girl for once and felt comfy with me. they were much more colorful in their language though....can't put it ihere.
seriously---i don't know what it is--but gay men flock to me. my old roommate Brad once said that its because I'm a gay man trapped inside a straight woman's body.....
and yes i totally just admitted all of this on here. no shame in mah game
hunnybunnyxoxo
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not me personally. oh wait!! hell yeah, there was a guy i thought was gay!!! i briefly briefly dated him, like a few dates...
he had more face products than a clinque counter! he used eye cream too!! what man does that?? and he had a mauve colored scarf! honestly!
i thought he was gay but apparently he is seriously dating a woman right now... could be his beard?
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Posted by MJDoc12
i am the original fag hag d'jour
my HS boyfriend---came out 3 mos after we broke up
my first 'bf' in like jr. high/elementary school---found him on myspace....he's gay. a guy i had a HUGE crush on in jr. high--found him on the other guy's myspace--GAY
2 guys i hooked up with in college--later on they came out as: 1 gay 1 bi
when i hung out in the big gay party scene years ago with my drag queen roommate----all the gay guys and drag queens used to ask if i would sleep with them--cause they wanted to experience a girl for once and felt comfy with me. they were much more colorful in their language though....can't put it ihere.
seriously---i don't know what it is--but gay men flock to me. my old roommate Brad once said that its because I'm a gay man trapped inside a straight woman's body.....
and yes i totally just admitted all of this on here. no shame in mah game
gurllllllllllllllll when's he comin up here? I want some leg hunchin
SylvieB
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Posted by SylvieB
Yes. Absolutely. He is definetly gay (or maybe bi?) He just doesn't know it yet.
see that is where I am stuck...how do you not know
I don't know really and I know for a fact other people thought the same thing. Maybe he's just VERY Metrosexual.
Mmm, no, I don't think so- definetly gay.
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I have been trying to find a my space page or something of this kid I briefly dated who was sooooo gay but didnt know it. I guess Ill never know
Snick n Nick
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I think it's not always that they don't know it, but just that they are trying to fight it, or fit in and do what they're 'supposed' to do....I think that was the case with my friend....
lilqtpie2181
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It never happened to me as far as i know but this questiong did make me chuckle at my desk.
JennNicole
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Not that I am aware of but this dude I dated off and on prior the DH told me that he had a three some with a chick and another man and that freaked me out b/c I kept wondering what the two men were doing
He is very metrosexual and a fashion photographer so maybe he goes both ways - I think he likes both so that could be disastrous if you know what I mean
PegaLega
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Posted by lilqtpie2181
It never happened to me as far as i know but this questiong did make me chuckle at my desk.
