Seems that some of us are 'old'

I'm dipping in then dipping right back out to say one comment of defense for Curly.
Stef as you pointed out above Curly NEVER said you were terrible. Her threads never were started w/saying anything negative regarding you.
1 was to the people who FMd her, and 1 was to ask us not to look at LA Productions badly.
She never name called you or said negative things about you.

I agree that things have gotten out of hand - and I think both Brides to Be and Newlyweds contributed to this. But to say Curly said negative things about you is just not true and quite unfair. You're doing to her what you don't want done to you.

michele, i hope you are not directing that NOTE at my comment.

Although you offered support in this thread, you started off by commenting on the situation that happenned w/stef and curly in your first post. So it's no surprise others commented on it to. And absolutely no surprise that drama came from this thread. Perhaps if you had left out the comments about people attacking one another and left curlys and stef's names out, and only concentrated on the support you get and appreciate getting from your fellow newlyweds, it would have taken a different turn. JMO

I tried to stay away as best I could and only came on to defend curly b/c of somthing stef said that was not true.

Did someone say Poof be gone to all Newlyweds or did they say poof be gone to the parties involved in the program issue?? I have been here so long that I would not make anyone let me leave or feel bad. I will leave when I am good and ready.

I have used a lot of people's ideas, and with no creative bone in my body I have asked others to do the work for me. I guess I am of the feeling that we can all share and use each others ideas however we see fit in to our day. It would not bother me one way or another if someone used an idea of mine, I guess that is why I shared it in the first place. Perfect example, the cd favor, so many brides uses this idea, did any of us ask for permission from the original person???

I do not agree with the bashing and the name calling at all. I guess what they say is right, we all handle things differently. No matter how much we disagree we still must remember we have to respect other people's feelings.

Suzanne, you are more than welcomed here. Stef if it makes you feel better by not going to BHB then you must do what works for you. I think if this sort of thing continues there will be no sharing and this board will have lost its main purpose.

I was thinking the same thing.

I think this issue with the programs have been beat to death. Whether or not you agree with how Stef or Curly FEELS they have the right to feel it. They agreed to disagree DAYS AGO and yet the issue is still goes on

shamma the person said poof be gone in response to someone saying she didnt want to post on BHB anymore. Not all newlyweds.
I'm not saying this was right or wrong, but just wanted to answer your question.

Radiostar posted 'poof be gone' directly at me specifically.

Edited to add that how anyone can have any question about that being right or wrong is beyond me.

We are family.Hey hey hey hey now.I got all my sisters and me........
Everyone can't you see we're together as we walk on by.And we flock just like birds of a feather......

I said I'M NOT SAYING this is right or wrong.
Please don't turn my words around.

If we didn't have girls like Michele and Stephanie on here where would we get the ideas... They are so creative.. I wish I was like that..
Marcellabella is another one.. The girl is just so creative.. But I would never steal their idea I would tell them I am using your idea persay..

In my e party programs I have a note to Marcella.. Saying THANKyou to her for without her help I would not have them!

Stephanie you better NOT stop posting..

I have to have someone post back to me with a real opinion and not a PHONEY person....

shamma--off the subject -I have to say you do too have creative bones in your body - plenty of them. You had plenty of special things/ideas at you wedding and you are always helping others with ideas. Plus, I saw how you creatively mushed peeps!

My note is to show how easy this is to get nasty about people on these threads. We need to STOP getting nasty with each other. That is just so This is my last comment on this issue. Poof be gone was UNCALLED for.

Please STOP IT everyone! That is not why we are here. Nothing is getting resolved on here but instead people are getting more upset.

Niecey lets not start a PEEP war over here, b/c I am waiting on those girls to tell me if they want a truce or not. *LOL*

Thanks for responding Liz

Stef you are a older member on here, how can you let somone that just came on dictate to you when and where to post?? Her comment was rude towards you, but you cannot let b/c of one person you do not share your ideas with others. I will say tho' if you will feel better by not helping then you must do what you are most comfortable with.

Niecy all my creative peep mushing was with Chippa help. That woman is psychotic. I could not come up with all that evil on my own.

ah ha Shamma!!! You're giving away your secrets yet again!! the peeps are watching you!!!
Defenders are waiting on Suzanne's opinion of a truce!

Shamma; One person is not dictating to me when/where to post. Its that after she made that comment, not a single bride to be said a word to her. Not 'that was inappropriate' or anything. So it just says to me that most of the brides there do not want my input if they are so willing to let me get trashed. Thats all Im saying.

But i agree...lets let it die! I am upset as im sure curly is too. There is no reason to rehash over and over the same ol stuff.

Leelee, I am not saying or doing anything wrong, I clearly stated that I am waiting on a truce and I do not want the peep war to continue, do you think I would state out in the open if I had some secret plan. I want to live peepfully that's all I am saying

We all need to live peepfully!!

I, too, believe a truce would be the best thing...
Now we know--Chippa is more involved than orginally thought!

I am looking in to psychiatric help for Chippa. She does not know how to let go. I might have to take her down by force She does not want it to end