Im planning to send my thank you pictures with xmas cards. We are sending our thank yous out Monday. I didn't want to wait for the pictures as I think the thank yous need to be sent out sooner rather than later. But, when I send the pictures, should I send them to people who were invited to the wedding and declined and didn't send a gift? Or will that be weird? We had like 8 people who did this and I dont want it to be awkward... But its not going to say 'thank you' anywhere on it- Im just going to slip the pics in to the cards- we will prolly do 4x3 pictures.
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hayleyandsteve
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I wouldn't send a thank you to someone who didn't attend your wedding and didn't give a gift.
If they attended and/or gave a gift, then send one
GinaZ
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Posted by hayleyandsteve
I wouldn't send a thank you to someone who didn't attend your wedding and didn't give a gift.
If they attended and/or gave a gift, then send one
Im not sending them thank yous. But Im getting pictures printed to send with xmas cards- do you think I should send those people a picture?
acsm
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i probably would just send it to everyone.. its a christmas card and nowadays people are sending them with pictures.. so i diont think its awkward.. its a nice way to 'see' how people are doing - make sense??
GinaZ
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i probably would just send it to everyone.. its a christmas card and nowadays people are sending them with pictures.. so i diont think its awkward.. its a nice way to 'see' how people are doing - make sense??
yes. I just didn't want it to come off like we were being wise a*ses. LOL. Im prolly analyzing it more than they would!
hayleyandsteve
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okay wait, i'm confused.
you're sending out christmas cards on monday???
haha sorry i don't know why i'm so confused!
acsm
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i probably would just send it to everyone.. its a christmas card and nowadays people are sending them with pictures.. so i diont think its awkward.. its a nice way to 'see' how people are doing - make sense??
yes. I just didn't want it to come off like we were being wise a*ses. LOL. Im prolly analyzing it more than they would!
i dont think you are.. if your still unsure.. if its friends then i'd skip the picture.. if its family then i'd send it.. JMO
Aug07OFCbride
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id put wedding pics in all xmas cards, regardless of whether they attended. its nice for them to see how you looked and everything since they couldnt be there. they don't have to be 'thank you' pics as youre calling them, youre just sharing your wedding pics.
how long will it take to get your pics tho, your wedding wasn't that long ago. is it too long to just wait to put them in thank yous instead? or can't your photog design something now for you that incorporates your pics?
bemyyoko
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people send pictures out with their christmas cards all the time. i can't tell you how many pictures of people's cats or dogs I have... if I couldn't attend, I'd still love to get a picture. and if i didn't, i'd just put it aside and not make a big deal out of it.
I see where you're coming from, so if there is someone specific you're worried about, just don't give them one.
